Ignore the messed up face!
The shirt pocket and the smile are keepers. Not sure about white tie on white shirt, the contrast helps create visual interest.
Thought about double breasted at all? If you’re going for a rakish look, a fashion forward choice like that would be helpful. As it is, your looks don’t sit well with the safe choices being made here. If you’re going to shave and cut the hair, it’ll come together as-is.
The “white” tie actually has a small deep blue pattern in it, the photo really doesn’t make it justice (but I’m still open for changing things up). I tried some double breasted but none of the models I tried on felt “right”; and yeah of course I’m going to try to fix up some of the hair ahahahah
For a wedding where you’re the groom, go with number 2.
For any other formal event, go with number 1.
And your messed up face looks great. You got a kind of Timothy Chalmet thing going on with that hair and all.
Are you the groom or a guest? Guest I would do dark. Groom the white.
Second one!
Without a doubt, the second one. White tie and handkerchief.
Congratulations!