Names blurred to protect the innocent / crazy. Not trying to call anyone out, just thought the response was hilarious and highly disproportionate. Like, they distinguished that comment (green border/background).

For reference, the comment I presume that was downvoted that apparently triggered that response was to the tune of “BoTH SiDEz!!!” with some hyper generalizing / stereotyping on the side.

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This is unprofessional admin behaviour. No one is crazy, it’s ableist to claim anyone is such.

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If you don’t like it then don’t participate on the instance

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If they don’t like it they should defederate. Make it into a proper hugbox

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Stop asking for defederations people.

That function is for wildly inappropriate or illegal content, not a random community you are not the target group of. Block communities you dont care for yourself, or even the whole instance. That way you can still interact with their users / read posts and comments outside the instance.

The fediverse should not be fractured needlessly.

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I’m saying if the instance doesn’t want outsiders coming in then that instance should remove itself from others

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Which instance? Just want to know so I can avoid it.

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You can search for the text if you want (which should find it for you), but I’m not here to out anyone. I just thought the crazy-ass response was hilarious and worthy of a post here.

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So what that made me mad? And you are aware that it does? Is it really nice to post this stuff even when its “blurred” so people can laugh at me? Is that really an adult thing to do? You absolutely are trying to call me out, you are being cruel. If you don’t like what I have to say block me and move on, what you did is vicious and mean spirited.

Why bother participating and paying for this when I’m treated like shit by drive by people, like yourself. You even participated in my content but as soon as I’m not lock step in support of your fascist government and show any kind of emotions, I’m crazy. Never mind I have a stressful job, never mind that I am lonely and set this up to keep up with my friends and now just to get shit on by anonymous. Never mind my family has been repeatedly victimized by the US government. I didn’t meet your standards so now you must ridicule me, denigrate me as crazy and get a crowd of people to laugh?

Delete this post and fuck off. Leave me, my instance and my friends who use this the fuck alone. I defederated your instance and will block you after this. Feel free to post this publicly and denigrate me some more if you need to with your crew of mean spirited people like yourself who must silence everything and call it crazy for being different.

The only crazy-ass thing is someone who is supposedly an adult acting like a child and being cruel. Go away.

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I’m with you on this one, sorry for what happened, seems very harsh indeed.

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I just thought the crazy-ass response was hilarious and worthy of a post here.

Not sure their reaction deserves such derogatory terms.

I post in a few non-English communities. There was a time when posts would instantly get downvoted, most probably because people didn’t speak the language and did not know how to configure it in their settings. As a consequence, the content would usually get buried, when not completely vanish from the feeds (there was a bug at the time that wouldn’t show any post with 0 votes)

I can imagine what it would feel like if I were to have “controversial” stances, and where people would systematically downvote by content. That’s borderline harassment, and can frustrate quite fast.

As I said in another comment: if you don’t like a community, block it and move on. As long as content is not illegal or breaks any regulations, just let the people be. What is the point of purposely go to a community you have nothing to do with just to downvote stuff?

I can understand the reaction of the OP here.

On top of that, as Lemmy is so small that they got instantly identified, that makes things even worse.

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:sigh: So i’ll just put all the cards on the table here.

  1. I was subscribed to the community, so it wasn’t a drive-by downvote.

  2. I’m pretty positive (99.9999999% sure) language barrier was not the issue. What was stated in the comment was very clear, ignorant, and broadly stereotyping (not to mention offensive).

  3. I didn’t even downvote the post. I downvoted the ignorant, broadly stereotyping, offensive comment by the OOP.

  4. I didn’t even reply to the offensive comment because I don’t have time, energy, or enough fucks to give for such an ignorant take.

  5. OOP decides to put anyone who downvoted them on blast.

  6. OOP of that (which I am still tactful enough to keep anonymous), has DM’d me twice and insulted me.

  7. OOP deletes the whole post and pops in here to play the victim. But that’s on me for letting them get away with that. I was trying to be tactful and not call anyone out when I should have taken screenshots of the whole thing.

The real Fedidrama was the drama we made along the way 😂

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How do you search text across instances

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The instance could use less meat eaters arguing for their immoral lifestyle.

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A hypocritical coward.

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Nah the guy in the post is a brave man standing up for the victims of speciesism and colonialism.

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Talk about reddit brained. Why do downvotes matter to so many people? There is no karma count except for individual comments. You don’t know what someone downvotes for so why get worked up over it?

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If you want it to be for vegans only then you should defederate tbh

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I had similar experiences in the past, I get you.

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Now that is an interesting idea. A timeline that ranks only by local votes

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Yeah, with that, you’d be able to control who can vote on the posts your users see. Very useful for a totalitarian admin.

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The instance can also disable downvotes. It won’t block a remote instance from downvoting, but those downvotes won’t be federated and will only be seen for users of the instance where the downvote happened.

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6 points

If someone indicates they dislike a narcissist’s content it shatters their ego.

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Just because you call someone something doesn’t mean that it is true.

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Because it is a form of downplaying the abuse farm animal face everyday.

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If you don’t like downvotes (like me!) join an instance with disabled downvotes. Simple solution. I don’t know why OOP hasn’t disabled downvotes on their instance.

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What do you mean?

It still shows upvotes.

Yes obvs everyone else who has downvotes implemented can see them. But if you personally don’t like how downvotes are being used, then your experience will be devoid of them. Which is a great personalisation feature.

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Chronicle the life and tale of the fediverse (+ matrix)

Largely a sublemmy about capturing drama, from fediverse spanning drama to just lemmy drama.

Includes lore like how a instance got it’s name, how an instance got defederated, how an admin got doxxed, fedihistory etc

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