Excuse my ignorance im just curious.

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When you say “this site”, do you mean lemmy in general, or lemmy.ml(your home instance)? Because lemmy in general DOES allow nsfw content, its just that no one (to my current knowledge) had been willing to start+moderate a NSFW instance yet. If you think you are up to it, you are more than welcome to spin up your own instance. Just remember you still have to follow all the laws regarding server hosting where you live(or where the server is hosted maybe? Idk I’m not a lawyer).

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When we say “this site”, we’re obviously talking about your profile page. Why does your profile page not allow porn?

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I’m just going to take your response literally, because I honestly can’t tell if you’re joking or not. when you join a lemmy instance, in OPs case, lemmy.ml, or in your case, lemmy.world. your profile is hosted on said instance, and therefore anything you put on your profile is subject to the rules of whoever owns/moderates that instance. if you don’t like it, move to another instance, or start your own, that’s the benefit of a federated system!

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My comment was a pun on your username in relation to the lack of clarity in OP’s question. You being this@sh.itjust.works… quite plausibly “this page” would refer to your personal profile page. It would of course be ridiculous for anyone to expect to post porn on your profile page, but I committed to the silliness. Sorry it didn’t come through.

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Thanks for the response. Still learning how lemmy works. I just followed a link I was sent thinking it was lemmy in general and not just this instance.

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I think there is a Lemmy NSFW instance, but it’s defederated from most instances

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because this is lemmy.ml , if you want porn go to one of the nsfw friendly instances like lemmy.burger.rodeo (but I think you need to be logged in for nsfw communities to show up)

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Cooking up a platform for Free Thought And Expression! (NSFW &Loli/Shota/Cub friendly!) Minimal Restrictions on Content/Speech.

Hard pass on that dawg.

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Exactly. Is it too much to ask to see consensual picture shared by age appropriate people on their own volition? I guess this is why we can’t have nice things.

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Usually its anime girls that are actually older than they appear.

Fun fact, that’s a condition that actually occurred to a girl in real life, she looked 12 and visibly didn’t hit puberty, she was 20.

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I don’t use reddit for p0rn, but the fact is that a lot of reddit users won’t consider lemmy an option unless there’s porn.

Actually, I think it’s important to have one also because it’s better to compartmentalize that shit on its own dedicated instance, anyway.

PSA: WE NEED A PORN INSTANCE. Any takers?

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Do you really want more reddit porn users?

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The porn would be on it’s own instance not federated with the common Lemmy servers. So it wouldn’t show up in /all.

Those who want porn would have to actively seek it out by connecting to those instances. More over, if one instance starts allowing unacceptable material, the other instances can blacklist it.

edit: I was wrong. Lemmynsfw is indeed federated.

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Or the dev should make a feature so porn subs don’t show up in /all by default, and that you’ll have to opt-in.

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Would be even better if the porn instances started federating, two horny instances federating might make another instance and then that’s how children are made.

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Seems completely unnecessary since there are many porn sites online already. Also it would take quite a lot of server resources since it’s all images and video.

And do we want reddit users who want porn here?

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The question isn’t “do we want Reddit users who want porn here?”, but rather “do we want Reddit users who see no value in a space unless it’s full of porn?”.

There should absolute be spaces for sex workers, both online and in meatspace, but maybe the produce aisle still has value even if it’s not surrounded by strippers. And maybe. People want to buy produce sometimes without seeing said strippers.

Now, whether there should be instances that are all sex workers or not is a different, and complicated, question. Sex work is often criminalized, and even the legal forms of it are highly scrutinized. Putting them all in a confined space makes it really easy for authorities who are looking to send a message to unilaterally shut down their infrastructure. We’ve seen it on the Fediverse before. They need some kind of smoke screen in order to be protected from the Delores Umbridges of the world. But that doesn’t mean people who are unable or unwilling to handle the added stress and responsibility needtl to be the ones doing the screening.

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The point of Reddit, and now Lemmy by extension, is a sort of link aggregator + comments. As with all content: sure, general sites all exist for that porn, but sometimes if you want more specific categories it’s a lot easier to have community collected content that is sorted.

If someone wishes to spin up an instance for it, so be it. You are welcome to ignore it and not federate with it. That’s the point of the fediverse.

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it would take quite a lot of server resources since it’s all images and video

Instance rules could mandate media to be hosted externally. Imgur is out of the question but plenty other services exist.

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If I had the means, I’d honestly try to run an instance on Tor or something.

And then probably shut it down after a week because how do you deal with all the spam?

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Why write it as p0rn, if there’s no censorship in here?

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Any takers at all? look around

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A great question, porn/sexuality is a great deal for many users (me, included) and Reddit tried to make them go away or at least hide them; I have no idea why is it not allowed in so many Lemmy instances (if not all of them) but I hope that changes in the not so far future, otherwise we’re going to be missing one of the biggest reasons people use Reddit and might not move to a Lemmy instance.

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It’s not allowed in a lot of instances because the moderation is absolutely exhausting and sometimes NSFL material.

The only limiting factor here is admins + moderators of an instance willing to put themselves through that.

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I have no idea what kind of person wants to do that sort of thing, but they do exist.

Perhaps we should send PMs to all the porn subreddit mods and ask them if they’d be interested in moderating a porn reddit on lemmy?

I’d be curious to know which porn subreddits are scheduled to go dark on the 12th. Are there any reddit porn connoisseurs here that can do that research and let us know which subreddits mods might be upset at reddit and interested in migrating here?

So we need two lists:

  1. List of porn subreddits with upset mods
  2. List of lemmy instances that would be down to host some porn communities
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If you go to r/ListOfSubreddits there’s a pinned thread with a REALLY LONG list of NSFW subs, going asking or checking all of them is something that would require time… like, a LOT of time.
For the instances that would be down… I’d really doubt there is one right now, at least the ones I checked just seemed to subscribe to the no NSFW rule.

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Somebody on reddit had a massively huge list of every sub that’s going dark, both sfw and nsfw. I can’t find it right now though :/

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I’m fine with no porn. It gets so tiring seeing porn and pseudo-porn everywhere.

Porn should stay in dedicated instances so it can be blocked. NSFW tagging is unreliable at best.

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Agreed. Power to anyone who wants surprise porn intermixed with their memes and tech news, but I’d like the choice to keep that separate without blocking all NSFW content.

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I don’t need that while I’m on the train

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