I’m shamelessly stealing that person idea, because I think it’s an interesting question.
Personally I’m into porn involving some forms of abuse, often it’s rape but it could also be just spanking or gaslight. Of course I’m not into that in real life. I know CNC is a thing, same with consensual SM and I could be into trying those one day, but I don’t see myself doing that with my husband anytime soon, and it’s different when it’s planned in advance, which is not always the case in the story presented in porn.
Lemon theft. It’s a brilliant plot device, but stay the hell away from my lemons.
Any situation with more than 2 people. I love the idea of groups or swinging, but IRL I am a very awkward human - couldn’t do it even if presented with the opportunity. And I have no interest in anyone besides my partner.
I’ll leave that one to fantasy-land.
In porn i always look for 20-something looking girls, but IRL I always found myself physically attracted girls (women) of my age bracket… So definitely older.
Porn makes the look more interesting than personality, and in real life I think it’s the opposite. I definitely sometimes enjoy porn with 20 something guys too, but I don’t see myself going out with them, even if I was single.
I follow alot of hot Instagram models. They are amazing to look at. But if you ever attend a rare IG Live they do, they are some of the most vacuous, money minded people I’ve ever encountered.
One girl literally had the “cash me outside” girls schtick. I couldn’t help myself and sent a message saying it’s a good thing she’s pretty, then left.
99% of it . … I want to have a great time and want my partner to have a great time. I also don’t want to bang relatives or plumbers or realtors or any myriad of professionals. So yeah porn stays in the land of fantasy and I can be inspired but mostly leave it there
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