How long do you last? Excluding foreplay.

No lame answers like “it varies”. If it varies, tell us how/why it varies and tell us a number anyway.

Heterosexual females/gay males, feel free to kiss and tell. Tell us how long your previous dudes have lasted.

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23 points

As for me? Let’s say that even Duolingo knows and makes fun of me!

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5 points

At least with exp boost

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It’s my only hope do earn any XP since I’m one and done!

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As everyone, it really depends on many factors:

  • When was the last time I had sex (1 month, 1 week, 1 day, 1 hour ago, etc.)
  • How was foreplay (if foreplay was amazing, then I have to double the efforts in not cumming)
  • How long I want to last (I can kinda control it, but there are situations where once I’m off the edge, it’s done)
  • Position and things being done to me (if I’m fucking a statue, then I can last as much as I want, but if I’m being touched, kissed and licked all over, then I can count the seconds)

Anywho… anything between 5 minutes and 40 or so. After that I get tired, and I appreciate the effort of people working. The most I’ve been doing it has been 2hr. I must admit it got boring at the end. There are so many possibilities in a 1:1.

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If foreplay is particularly good I honestly prefer to just actually cum during foreplay, so I can start sex in round-2 mode and last quite a while. Instead of going inside her already on the edge of blowing my load.

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8 points

I’m more of a one shot kind of guy. So if I cum outside, it’s game over for while.

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4 points

This is a great answer! You should publish this in a peer reviewed academic journal for NSFW Lemmy threads.

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14 points

Essentially forever. If I want to orgasm not only do I have to concentrate, but I need very specific kinds of stimulation. It’s a real bother most of the time, but I have never in my life finished early, so…

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With as infrequently as I get to have sex, (kids), 3 mins at best. When regularly having sex, more like 10. When I was depressed, it was a struggle.to even start, and when I did, it was difficult to finish

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As long as I want to.

Historically its been a struggle for me to get off at all. But there was a change recently, and now I’m able to get off but I have to be in a good mental spot for it.

I have to brag about yesterday, where my wife brought me to orgasm in the morning before she went to church, and again that evening before we went to sleep. For someone who has had trouble climaxing before, and is now in his 40s, it was a shock.

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