16 points

Maybe instead of calling as yourself pretend to be someone who is very comfortable calling their doctor. 🤔

Not sure if that works 😅

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I can call the doctor. I know I can. But I keep procrastinating nonetheless…

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I can’t explain how to do this because it’s in my head but when I have to make a call or something I keep putting off I can force myself to do it by kind of taking my brain out of the equation. Like for a phone call I just start dialing and by the time the procrastinating part of me catches on to what’s happening the phone is already ringing and I might as well go through with it.

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It’s like the same brain mechanics that prevent you from touching a hot stove. You got to go out of your way to override or tick it since phone calls are also existential hazards.

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I do the same when I want to start working on any task but it seems daunting or boring and I procrastinate. I just do the first step, like “ok just open the task’s description, read it and try to understand the context”. By the time I did this, I have no difficulty moving to the next step.

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1 point

pretend you are someone who does things immediately?

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14 points

I’ve desperately needed a dentist appointment for so long… but I keep doing this.

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I didn’t go to the dentist for 4 years, moved & Covid & postponing making an appointment 50-100 times. I severely regret not going sooner.

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3 points

Do you want to lose a tooth? Cause that’s how you lose a tooth. Speaking from experience here.

And despite being pretty good about dentist’s appointments these days, I, too, have been putting off a doctor’s appointment for weeks now. (It’s tomorrow, finally. )

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I’ve lost many, including a front one. even had to have a jaw surgery when I was 17. it’s just so expensive. so every time I want to schedule, I think “what if I can’t afford it”.

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11 points

yup. almost did it to find my doctors office eliminated saturday hours. Now I can procrastinate looking for a new doctors office with weekend hours before I even get to the appointment phase.

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9 points

Procastination is a fun costume our fears wear. I’ll do anything if I can avoid calling someone, it stresses me a lot. But knowing it and dealing with it helps me.

That said, roleplaying someone that’s good calling sometimes helps as catharso said. Just don’t do any MGS voice.

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6 points

Not always. There’s simple executive disfunction to consider

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8 points

My GP has an online tool to make appointments, and it’s great. I wouldn’t use it for genuinely private stuff because the company behind it is a bit shady, but booking an appointment to get vaccinated is generic enough for me to pick convenience over privacy. It’d be great if they could use open-source, privacy-respecting software, though.

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That’s what finally helped me get an appointment for tomorrow.

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