A lot of the things we do on a daily or weekly basis have ways of doing them that can either be private or communal, some of these which we do not think to consider as having that characteristic.

For example, bathing in the Roman Empire used to be communal, but then Rome fell and citizens in the splinter countries began taking baths privately.

Receiving mail is another example. There are countries which don’t have mailboxes and everyone gets their mail at the post office in the PO boxes. It was the United States which pioneered the idea of the modern mail system, which is why we associate it as a private act.

There are activities as well which don’t have any history as jumping between one or the other that might benefit from it, for example I think towns might benefit if internet was free and freely accessible but only at the local library.

What’s a non-communal aspect of life you think should be communal?

45 points

Cooking. Let’s all just cook one big meal each week and split it among 6 other people, and receive 6 meals in return.

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You know, that’s not a bad idea. I only have to make one meal, but I get more variety in my food each day.

I bet it’s easy to get going to, you only need a few friends / family / neighbours to get started

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Step 1. Get Friends.

That seems to be the hardest part. :(

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I enjoy cooking; nothing takes the joy out of cooking quite like cooking for others.

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That’s odd; I only enjoy cooking when I’m cooking for others. If it’s just me, I don’t give a fuck; pb&j, or I’ll order, or Soylent… Or I just don’t eat, much easier.

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I’m with you. I’m perfectly content making myself ramen or some pasta or even just a bowl of cereal and toast.

But if I’m cooking for people, I’m actually putting in effort, dammit.

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That’s fine; for me it’s more or less meditative to cook for myself. 3 years of food service was enough.

I’m also fat so I can make things exactly to my personal tastes(awesome) and as much as I want (less awesome if not outright dangerous)

And if i feel creative the only one dealing with the consequences is me

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Power plants, power grid, water grid, post, 5G networks, parking lots payment, visa cards should be state based, public health insurance, health system incl dentists, pension system, education, Kindergarden should all be completely public with no intention of profit. All parallel private companies need to be forbidden in this space

Basically reversing the privatization politics of the last 50 years in the EU because politicians are too lazy to organize this

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6 points

This is an ideal space for Steve Jobs to put both his feet into

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4 points

what if we held hands… in the communal toilets <3

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1 point

communal commode.

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25 points

Transportation and gardening.

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Communal gardens are a thing in many cities. My experience with them however has been skin to a HOA full of Karens

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Look, if I could get three or four more sets of hands to put down the maximum amount of cannabis plants in my backyard, know they’d participate in the cleaning post-harvest, and all I’d have to give up was a couple Oz’s per set of hands? God, I’d be growing more than two or three plants a season, wouldn’t I?

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Heck yea, would be a sweet setup.

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Child-rearing! Child-rearing! Child-rearing! I hate the nuclear family model!!

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I don’t want to be a full time parent, but I’d happily teach an inquisitve kid the few things I know for a few hours a week

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I’ve been seeing that shift a lot recently. For instance, a lot of friends will work out a deal where their kids spend the day with their grandparents once or twice a week to save on day care costs.

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Nono I mean a full-on third, fourth etc. parent. Someone who takes care of the child basically from birth, who is as trusted as “mom” or “dad”. Maybe even a second person responsible for breastfeeding the child.

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I dunno about that one, chief… I don’t trust people to not be weirdos or to be properly housebroken anymore. Certainly not westerners-- I’d have to do a full-on, US Government style background check on a mf before I was comfortable putting my child in another person’s hands.

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