Hi, all.

As should be news to no one, polarization and animosity between conservatives and liberals is at one of its all-time highs in America right now. There’s even talk of a second civil war looming. Obviously, there are strong passions and convictions on both sides, and people on both sides have claimed that the other is a grave threat to the integrity of the nation itself. I’m familiar with the views and concerns of my own side: we view Donald Trump’s (and his allies’ and supporters’) statements and actions as being an attack on the democratic process that defines our nation, and are worried that the strategies and tactics he and they are employing will make future elections farcical, paving the way for an authoritarian state (a dictatorship). I am less familiar with why conservatives feel Democrats and liberals are a threat to the nation and its integrity in similar fashion. My best guess is that conservatives buy Trump’s assertions that the 2020 presidential election was rigged, and thus might have similar fears as liberals do, but I also get the sense conservatives have deeper, older concerns than this, and that Trump was/is viewed as a solution to them.

Can you please try to articulate here what those fears are? And, to any liberals reading this, please refrain from answering in conservatives’ stead. I’m interested in their opinions, not your opinions of their opinions.

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I always thought conservative were scared: they’re scared that their lifestyle is in danger, because they think that the other side will do like them. This means they are scared that Muslim will force them to do Ramadan or excision. They’re scared that lgbt will force them into lgbt. They’re scared that they will be poor if the current poor aren’t anymore. They’re scared that they will have to work if their children aren’t working enough.

Fear is what drives them IMO. And violence and coercion is the only solution they know, which fuel their fear, because they fear the other side is as bad as they are.

Media will do whatever they can to fuel these fears too. Honestly, I would execute or exile the people leading the far right media. They are traitors who manipulate and lie on a large scale, they are the largest threat to western countries today.

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This explains their obsession with guns and personal property, they feel so out of control on big issues, they get hyper vigilant on whatever they can control.

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Dude, don’t be a dick.

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I mean, he could have used lighter words but the contents of the reply couldn’t have really changed. Conservatives at this point, maga conservatives expecially, are well beyond reason. I can’t see how can they be recovered from the pit of hate and despair they dug themselves in since they are the ones defending their “right” to be left in the ignorance hole they so much love and enjoy.

Personally I am not for eugenetic politics but, should I ever have a daughter to take care of, one of the lessons I’ll make sure to pass her will be to avoid as much as possible to mingle with someone having any right-leaning believes. They need to stop reproducing

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At least us right leaning people know what a woman is without needing a biology degree…

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Nah, I deal with the idiots too much to have patience anymore. Find someone else to cry to.

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I’d like to know too. To me, liberals want clean air, safe food, livable wages and working conditions. They want to marry who they love, ensure education for all and make healthcare affordable and available. They sound like monsters!

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Well, fair on clean air and safe food. The issue is the liveable wages and working conditions, which you guys clearly don’t want, with all the cheap labor you guys keep importing. Also on healthcare, American government healthcare is already horrible, why make everyone suffer?

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Forget Trump for the purpose of this question, because he’s divisive, and many conservatives don’t fully support him.

The general answer to your question is that Progressivism is designed to destroy the USA by gradually eroding traditional values, and then progressively moving on to erode more. That’s the entire point of Progressivism.

I’ll spare you the book-length answer that unpacks that idea into a long list of examples.

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The general answer to your question is that Progressivism is designed to destroy the USA by gradually eroding traditional values, and then progressively moving on to erode more. That’s the entire point of Progressivism.

When this country was founded, many people held the values that Black people should be slaves and women shouldn’t be allowed to vote. Assuming you don’t hold those values, doesn’t that go against the idea that all traditional values are good and shouldn’t be changed? Furthermore, the Founding Fathers intentionally created ways for laws and even the constitution to be changed, so isn’t it fair to say they intended for progressivism to have an avenue to change things? Your answer seems overly generalized. I asked my question operating on the assumption that there were specific fears conservatives have today about how liberals are trying to do things they feel will destroy the country. Do you think you could give me those specifics?

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My answer was generalized because I do not care to get into the specifics. I’m sorry, I know that seems dismissive. But I wasn’t kidding when I said “book-length”. You’re proposing an extremely long and detailed discussion. Maybe someone else will bite, but it won’t be me. Not today. I stand behind my generalization fwiw, and I’ll leave it at that.

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Fair enough. Thanks for responding at least. (BTW, it wasn’t me who downvoted your comment.)

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I don’t think the founding fathers would support changing the country to a communist shithole.

That’s not why they allowed amendments

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I used to be a liberal too.

Right up until the evergreen college strangeness. I didn’t understand why those students were acting the way they were. So I started looking into it.

It’s a lot of very dense reading to actually understand how liberals and their values have changed. A lot of Derrida, Foucault, Marx, etc has crept into the liberal idea of society.

Conservatives value freedom and the individual. Liberals have begun to go backwards, treating people as part of social groups. So instead of you just being you, and having the ability to succeed or fail on your own merits (the things that we all used to agree on), have become twisted.

This is where the left really lost someone like me. I was having a conversation about people and individualism with a friend of mine and she said “have you ever heard of intersectionality?” Well, yes of course. But you intersect everyone enough and you’re just left with a perfectly unique human. Skin color, religion, education, preferences, you add them all up and no one is the same as anyone else.

So that’s a bit of the social ways that liberals are moving us away from a capitalist democracy. I’d suggest reading Stephen hicks “understanding postmodernism” to kind of start to see why conservatives don’t like the social direction liberals want to take the west.

And as far as policy, a lot of liberal solutions to problems is just to throw money at shit. And bloating government to make up more programs to throw money at.

The government is incompetent, and liberals want to keep giving government more control over peoples lives. But the government will never make better decisions for your life than you will.

That’s basically what taxes are. You find the government with your tax dollars, and they decided how to spend it. But that money is always going to be better spent by you directly. You’ll always make better financial decisions for yourself and your family than the government ever will.

And since the government isn’t an actual expert in any field, and are completely incompetent, they will actually make resoundingly terrible decisions with your money.

If you want to help people, give money yourself through charities of your choice, you don’t need to hand it to the government and hope they spend it in a way you would support. If you had that 30% in your pocket, you could spend it exactly how you feel is best to help people.

Obviously this is very high-level and not detailed, but a little overview, broad strokes.

The feeling of inevitable violence is because the leftists have decided that anyone who isn’t a leftist is a bigoted nazi. I mean, those are pretty obviously fighting words.

If you call someone a nazi, that’s extremely insulting and people will defend themselves. It’s dehumanizing. There are very few nazis or white supremacists in the world. But the left thinks there are 80 million of them in just the US alone

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I was a lifelong conservative until I developed a chronic illness and realized that conservatives have nothing but cruelty to offer in this regard. It broadened my empathy for others and made me more liberal. For instance when you talk about people failing or succeeding on their own merits, I realize that it is indeed possible for the scales of failure and success to be so drastically skewed so as to almost guarantee a particular result. If one person for example is spending more than half their time managing an illness which creates profound life limitations and another doesn’t have to deal with that, who is more likely to find success?

Why then should that person’s maximal prosperity be favored over the other person’s ability to do anything more than scrape along in poverty? Why shouldn’t that person prefer a political philosophy which still treats them like a human being and not simply a loser, a failure or whatever other word one might want to put to it? And to be clear, I’ve been doing the bootstrap thing for a long time. I’ve built businesses to try to create opportunities for myself when everything else was closed off. It’s not laziness or apathy or anything of the sort. It is however clear to me that conservatives don’t think about people in my situation at all and they see me as having no place in society.

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This is a lot more helpful than your other comment ITT, which I’m not going to bother responding to.

Right up until the evergreen college strangeness.

I remember that and I agree their behavior was balls-to-the-wall crazy and totally unjustified. Thing is, most liberals who saw that agreed the students were out of line. Just like most conservatives agree the 1/6 crowd were out-of-line. Don’t judge an entire half of the political spectrum by their extremists.

Conservatives value freedom and the individual. Liberals have begun to go backwards, treating people as part of social groups.

Liberals value freedom too, don’t be daft. No group would admit that they don’t value freedom, and virtually all do in some sense. Conservatives grip that liberals are encroaching on people’s religious freedoms, while liberals gripe that conservatives stand in the way of freedoms for gay people, women, racial minorities, etc.

As for individualism vs. collectivism, it’s not as simple as individualism=good, collectivism=bad. In any functional society, there is always a balance between the freedoms of the individual and and the needs of the group. Supporting one while neglecting the other always leads to societal problems. It’s not “backwards” to treat people as parts of social groups—we all are a part of social groups, even as we are distinct individuals as well.

This is where the left really lost someone like me. I was having a conversation about people and individualism with a friend of mine and she said “have you ever heard of intersectionality?” Well, yes of course. But you intersect everyone enough and you’re just left with a perfectly unique human. Skin color, religion, education, preferences, you add them all up and no one is the same as anyone else.

I take issue with intersectionality too, but not for the reason you’ve given here. I think here you’re taking the idea to an extreme it was never meant to be taken to and thus judging it to be absurd when you’re the one who’s taken it to that absurd end. I don’t have a problem with intersectionality as a concept—it’s just the idea that people can be given a set of social “coordinates” in society by mapping where they fall on various bipolar axes. There’s nothing wrong with that; it’s a valid way of looking at subsections of society. The problem I have with it is that most people who talk about intersectionality and use it in political arguments don’t use it as a method of analysis but as a method of painting a literal crosshairs on certain demographics to make them the enemy.

So that’s a bit of the social ways that liberals are moving us away from a capitalist democracy.

I think I can comfortably speak for most moderate liberals when I say that we don’t want a communist state, wherein the government owns everything and there’s only one political party to vote for. However, that doesn’t mean that capitalism has no flaws that it can’t correct itself. I favor capitalism, regulated by some socialist policies—which, again, I think I can safely say is what most moderate liberals want. Lemmy apparently is a haven for far leftist commies though. Never seen so many of them in one “place,” to be honest.

And as far as policy, a lot of liberal solutions to problems is just to throw money at shit. And bloating government to make up more programs to throw money at.

I work in community mental health and service a lot of people on welfare, disability, etc. Having seen how the system works up close, I can certainly agree that there is a lot of wasteful spending and the system overall is very inefficient. However, private charitable organizations have simply failed to help the populations I work with, and in my personal experience, that’s partially because a lot of them genuinely don’t want to. Churches are often only interested in helping if there’s a chance to gain a new convert, and lots of local organizations that focus on their surrounding community only have real interest in helping a specific subgroup within that community, not the community as a whole. So, I don’t think the private sector has demonstrated it has the willingness to help everyone, so much as specific groups.

The government is incompetent, and liberals want to keep giving government more control over peoples lives. But the government will never make better decisions for your life than you will.

Yes, but that’s not what your tax dollars are actually for. The idea of government charity (welfare) using your tax dollars is that it will at least attempt to take care of people neither you nor the private organizations you favor have any real interest in helping. It’s there for the people who are the most in need, with the fewest resources, options, and support. It’s in your interest that these people get help, because their poverty and suffering typically leads to crime and other social problems that will affect you down the line in one way or another. I have no real interest in helping criminals, but I acknowledge it’s in my interest that criminals do get help in prison, because reformed ex-convicts are less likely to return to a life of crime than unreformed ex-convicts.

The feeling of inevitable violence is because the leftists have decided that anyone who isn’t a leftist is a bigoted nazi. I mean, those are pretty obviously fighting words.

I understand why you say that, but I don’t think you’re looking at it from the other side as well. Conservatives regularly label anyone who doesn’t agree with them as “woke,” “Marxist,” and allege they “want to destroy the country” too, and yet the vast majority of political violence comes from the Right, not the Left. So, I don’t think that really accounts for the violence itself. Sure, those who get violent might cite extremist rhetoric from the opposite side of the political aisle, but every study that really digs deep into these people and their motivations finds they either have serious mental health issues or already adhere to a violent extremist ideology themselves to begin with.

Thanks for your input, I really do appreciate it. If you want to continue discussing these issues, I’m game, just keep your comments of this caliber, please.

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You have spent too much time online and it has friend your brain

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your insults don’t change the history of whiteness or the meaning of fascism.

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