So i get many ideas but i never do them and my interests change everyday which can be annoying.

Today my interest is some sort of video creation like maybe doing something on odysee or youtube but idk i hav eno ideas beyound that. i dont want to show my face or voice either becasue i just dont.

sorry i went offtopic, i really need a hobby or somethign also i start consoling next week. if someone has an idea on how to stay on track let me know becasue i think im getting someone with the idea of video creation?

also sorry about spelling…

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Im probably gonna sound very boomerish but i think you should just get busy. Work out or try to get a new skill, not necesarilly for hustle but just cause, but i mean comit to it, like take a course on your town or online, go to a gym or to any local art groups, be it painting, dancing or even acting, being part of a group makes comiting to your activity much more easy, and as a plus you could even make new friends. I know its easyer said than done specially from someone that isnt going throught your life, but you could start by just doing mundane stuff like house chores, decorating your room/house and cooking for yourself, and i mean something tasty not instant foot. Learning to cook descently is specially good since you have to eat 3 times a day for the rest of your life, mightaswell learn to do it right, eh?. Hell even videogames can be a good way to get bussy as long as its moderately of course, preferably single player focused games that have a begining and an end so you have a clear goal to acomplish and dont get stuck on those god awful conditioning machine loops from competitive online gaming.

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Im probably gonna sound very boomerish but i think you should just get busy. Work out or try to get a new skill, not necesarilly for hustle but just cause, but i mean comit to it, like take a course on your town or online, go to a gym or to any local art groups, be it painting, dancing or even acting, being part of a group makes comiting to your activity much more easy, and as a plus you could even make new friends. I know its easyer said than done specially from someone that isnt going throught your life, but you could start by just doing mundane stuff like house chores, decorating your room/house and cooking for yourself, and i mean something tasty not instant foot. Learning to cook descently is specially good since you have to eat 3 times a day for the rest of your life, mightaswell learn to do it right, eh?. Hell even videogames can be a good way to get bussy as long as its moderately of course, preferably single player focused games that have a begining and an end so you have a clear goal to acomplish and dont get stuck on those god awful conditioning machine loops from competitive online gaming.

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It’s probably adhd, and some of your advice won’t stick, but exercise is a great idea, so is learning to cook, all about the stimulants when your brain is a whirlwind

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Everyone is saying ADHD, but I wouldn’t say that because you don’t give enough context. I also start doing things that just come to mind, and after a month I change peojects leaving them unfinished. But I think it fairly normal some ppl just have a harder time dedicating all their time to one project. I’m juggling 3 projects as I’m writing this and I’m overwhelmed, yes, but that doesn’t change the fact that I can pay attension when I’m doing one of the three. (ppl who have ADHD usually can’t)

If you just fantasize doing thing, but never do that’s also not the sign of ADHD, I did yt baack in the day. Now I don’t, I don’t even think about it. The solution to “wanting to do stuff, but not doing them” is quite frankly to do them.

What i’d do in ur place is get some video editing software, recording software, and something that can make easy content, like for example CS:GO. You could record CS:GO however you’d like and edit the footage however you’d like. Do this until you enjoy it, and congrats! You did something maybe learnt something, maybe made new friends, maybe discovered a secret talent. This is life buddy. “Fuck around and find out.”

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That’s really not true about ADHD. It’s very poorly named. Leaving projects unfinished after a month or whatever is a very common ADHD behavior. People with ADHD don’t have a deficit of attention, when they’re interested in something that is all they focus on (called hyperfocus). And fantasizing about wanting to do something and not being able to get yourself to do it is another very common thing with ADHD.

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damn you just turned my world view upside down, I want to not believe you. But then again this is the internet, everything is true

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Before bedtime, I would write down in a journal what ideas you tried that day, and if you reflect on these a bit as you fall asleep, you could dream about one or two of those ideas. In the morning, re-read the journal entry you wrote the night before & ask yourself if you want to try pursuing that idea any further that day. Listen to yourself, if you can. Eventually, one of the many ideas you have will start to “stick” and then start to snowball after a few weeks of concentration. I think video creation is a great skill to have even if you dabble in it for a few weeks before losing interest.

I, too, jump interest to interest. A few of those ideas will really stick with you if they really resonate with your life pursuits. This is normal.

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You’re not entirely alone, I swap between games/projects/interests on a bi-daily or weekly basis unless something keeps me anchored. It’s very unproductive.

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thats good to know im not the only one in this boat.

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