What are your ways of finding the poly people in your local area? Do you have a community and meetups?
Bumble is great in Europe for this. Many poly people looking for friends… And get in as just friends and this world opens up. Other than that I meet a lot of people through kink. Kink clubs, leather parties, shibari / Kinbaku meetings… Etc. There are some poly meetups… But they tend to be only new people to poly that are often Chaos or need to learn more, also tend to be a bit young for me.
There are a few Facebook groups and discords in my city. Besides that, I’ve met a lot of polyamorous people at queer bars.
I’ve had good experiences with feeld
It’s just our bubble? Rainbow people and all