We always say goodbye with a kiss in the morning, always greet with a kiss in the evening, I’m more likely to ask about husband and kids’ day than vice versa because kids are students and husband does sales, so their days are more variable.

I would not worry about it if that’s all it is - build the routine you like. If it’s a sign your person is self centered then maybe worry but maybe they just don’t want this question themselves so don’t think you do. I personally don’t care, because communication in general is good.

Just today I jokingly complained to my husband that he always asks our cats how their day was, but he never asks me how my day went. He said “well I know your day was shit, so why bother.” Checkmate.

I don’t check every day, but I think the bot here never forgets to ask. I don’t want to share with it though. Y’know, Skynet became self aware in 1997.

On that note… how did your day go?

Way too often.

It’s in the past, I don’t need to have feelings about it anymore. Please don’t ask me to form an opinion about a day I’ll never think of again.