It feels like people are a lot nicer here than on Twitter and Reddit, and even when people disagree, it’s generally civil and not an all-out flame war. Also, there’s no algorithm promoting outrage all the time.

For me, the anticipation of toxicity was a huge deterrent for me ever participating in real discussions, but here I feel like I can be myself.

I think it’s healthier this way.

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I agree with this. I honestly have no idea what people are convinced things are that much better lol. Feels no different than any post on Reddit.

Almost like its the same people in both.

And if anything, I already see click bait being perpetuated everywhere with massive upvotes. Misinformation is already starting. The one Threads post about Shadow accounts, clickbait title that Meta is creating shadow accounts for people. Hundreds of upvotes. No, it’s called your instagram account, and its no secret.

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Can’t tell if this comment is meant to be ironic

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Agree.

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Just don’t say anything bad about the Fediverse (or anything good about Meta/Threads). That’s when the toxicity with appear. That’s what I’ve noticed, at least.

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Or criticize certain political stances.

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Eh. I’ve already spotted some ideological zealots and full threads pandering to them on here, sadly. I think if Lemmy does take off, we’ll sadly see that culture of toxicity blossom here too.

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Yep I’m going to just take it in while it lasts. Its been great so far.

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Same. I stopped commenting/posting on Reddit years ago due to the toxicity issues being referenced, and it’s nice to be able to participate again. Don’t think it’ll last that long though, but you’re right: enjoy it while it lasts.

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I like lurking, with a comment here or there. I have noticed the comment sections are giant circle jerks with everyone congratulating each other on how smart and civil they are. Better than aggression and trolling but still… ew.

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Literally no one is acting any different than on Reddit, but somehow everyone is pretending they are.

Like they didn’t just come from reddit themselves lol.

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I dont think civility is gross, but I do think gloating about is gross.

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I’ve seen way more arguing than agreeing, but maybe it’s the communities I frequent.

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So many posts right now are “DAE think Lemmy > Reddit?” If anything, people are more anonymous here, so it is only a matter of time before the amount of users brings in more toxicity. But just like reddit, users can avoid toxicity outrage baiting, and other issues by joining better (smaller) communities instead of echo chambers.

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i used to love r/yourjokebutworse when it was still new. then people started doing the exact same thing in the comments that they were making fun of. im jerking myself off writing this i know

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That was a very insightful point and I appreciate your delicacy in delivering it. Congratulations.

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Disagree. I’ve already seen extremely heated discussions.

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