Profile of Addroran@lemmy.ml on lemm.ee

Cross posted replies from elsewhere:

Totally agree. Any time I have attempted to explain - either to nDad or eMom - the issues and decades of abuse, they consistently deny and gaslight everything I tell them. They don’t want to hear. They don’t want to listen. They don’t care. Message received. Finally… Only took me 20 years of adulthood to reach this same conclusion!

Addroran

If you go NC and your Ns file you as missing, you're doing it right.

Is aang's (avatar) approach with koh the face stealer a good approach for us to use with our Ns?(yewtu.be)

Don’t speak about self at all, grey rock. Don’t say any thoughts or opinions. Don’t help out the N at all, if they desperately need help, call ems.

Why does someone who believes you’ve wrecked their life and finds you endlessly disappointing want to stay in a relationship with you?

Do flying monkeys ever try to do anything besides reconnect you to abuse?

Does anyone else find not making eye contact with negative people to be helpful?

Grey Rock Role Play - Narcissistic Mother - Wedding(www.youtube.com)

There a multiple levels of Ns.

N's don't ask question about your behavior? Only rhetorical questions?

This happen to anyone else? I thought I was the only one.(lemmy.ml)