Ambii [she/her, they/them]

Just be careful if you decide to cut them yourself, always do it when your hair is dry. Or when you go get a trim ask them to trim/style your bangs

I’m kinda like if a trans girl and a trans girl had a baby

Don’t say “I think i might be…” or “I’ve been thinking”, nothing that will sound like an opening to dismiss or argue your feelings.

“I am” or “I’ve known for [time frame]” work best because they cement your feelings as a fact.

Expect questions that might feel overly invasive or personal that you may not want to or be ready to share like “Why do you feel this way?”, “Are you sure?”, “What made you feel this way?”, “Are you going to do x, y or z?”

Coming out is the hardest step, I promise you things get much easier to talk about once it’s out in the open.

You got this!

How do I even answer a question like this

These questions don’t need to be answered truth be told. Sometimes we just feel things and we feel that those things are just right. But I think your response really depends on you and how you feel about yourself and the path you see in front of you.

For example if someone I came out to asked me “Are you sure?”, if I was feeling especially confrontational that day I’d turn it around on them and ask them how are they sure they’re not trans. Or if I knew the person a bit more personally and was okay with talking about my deeper feelings, I’d talk to them about how horrible I felt before coming to an understanding of who I am.

up with trans

Add something that neutralizes the spice next time

Changing my vote, as much as i want a deeply modded experience, i think including as many comrades as possible should be priority