Problematic thoughts and unhealthy thoughts aren’t the same thing, I always read the advice as meaning “there is no thoughts you should feel shame over” which is pretty good advice actually because shame doesn’t help correct thought spirals that much

Just be careful about it becoming full on limerence.

As far as I know all feelings of this sort are limerence, love only comes with knowledge and time. It isn’t something to be afraid of but to be aware of.

Yeah i understand it can also be… dangerous lol

don’t worry they don’t give enough of a shit about us to actually try and hurt us after we get a diagnosis. getting the diagnosis if you’re an adult is only good because you can use it to get accomodations

the fact that this is news proves that the reaction to the headline is justified

patriarchy is when have crush

that’s not at all how i read the comment though

The word in my comment you seem to have missed is that I said it isn’t inherently a pathological issue. Actually when you are aware of it like you said I think it’s actually quite pleasant

ok but it’s not inherently problematic lmao

Oh ok that’s based actually. Most people use “obsession” in a pathologizing way which can get really shitty with people who have special interests and stuff