Jenniferr [she/her, comrade/them]
School shooter style pfp
What if we took the city and moved it
Hey I read your whole thing. I just went through a somewhat similar situation with my now ex fiance. The way I see this situation is that it’s fucked and it sucks but it’s also an incredibly difficult situation for the both of you. Like your wife, my ex did not react well.
And when you said “And after many lengthy discussions, we’ve realized that I have kind of resorted to living within an alternate reality in my head where I perceive her in a way that isn’t true. For example, I was convinced every time we talked about my gender that she understood I wasn’t a man at all.” I realized I was doing that exact thing. But there was a reason for this compartimentalization - it was because I didn’t feel safe with her. In my situation it wasn’t just my ex getting panicky but verbally berating me whenever my gender was brought up.
To be honest, I think the severity of the situation Can excuse some shitty remarks from both sides here. It’s very stressful and I don’t think either of you should really worry about that. Further, in an ideal world ig both of you have done “wrong” things. But like, no. This sounds a lot like the situation that i wrnt through. In my situation, she feels like i betrayed her. I just feel bad for her though.
That being said, I think you have to come to terms with the fact that it’s very very likely this relationship is ending. I’m sorry comrade. But she laid out her hard lines and yeah I’m sorry
I eat so fast but I’m also unmedicated
I have a single cup pour over. Make 2 cups of coffee (30g) in a thermos and then drink it for a while
Yeahhh exactly how I feel haha. I also like my voice but also like… I need people to gender me correctly. I think right now my presentation is like kinda androgynous but my voice makes people always gender me male in person, drives me crazy.
Oh this video fucked also it made no sense how did he gather that much speed
Who’s the guy that Felix referenced who, when the rus-ukr war started, unfollowed everyone on Twitter besides Putin and Zelensky lmao
