Jivebunny
Late comment but yeah, stop dating the person. They will ruin you. You are polar opposites but you don’t see it because they can be so accommodating. Until they can’t. They will destroy you mentally and emotionally. Even if they maybe don’t want to. After 6 to 9 months they will start to invalidate you. They will hurt you just to have you chase them. Hope you are okay now, but borderline is a funny term. They have no borders. Just like you probably. Because you’re mostly a kind and decent person. You need to have your own borders, unless they make your borders for you. It’s like a drug addiction. How far can you go before you succumb. That’s when they will discard you.
They can’t help it, it’s what they do. They’ve been hurt when they were young and this is what they do. Don’t hold a grudge against them, they cannot help themselves. Save yourself.
I hope you are in a safe space now.
Just give it to the ones still believing. Not me though
Thunder is neat.