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It’s only a zero-sum game on trackers that don’t enact counterbalancing policies, which most do, so it’s braindead easy to keep a good ratio. Usually some combination of freeleech torrents and bonus points for seeding even when nobody’s downloading, which can be spent to boost your ratio. I’ve never owned a seedbox in my life, and my ratio is over 10 on most sites I’m on, even when my “real” ratio is closer to 1 or 2.
I’m big into splatoon, and some of friends are varying degrees of also into it, from “as invested as me” to “will play it but will make a good-natured fuss about it”. It’s the most fun shooter I’ve ever played, despite its terrible jankiness sometimes.
We also play a lot of boardgames on tabletop sim, if that counts.
the less I ventured out.
That’s turned out to be a big thing for me, too. When I was younger, I’d spend literally hours a day on StumbleUpon some days, just clicking through niche sites I’d never find otherwise, and submitting new ones I found that I thought other people would like. It was a competition to find the most interesting little-known sites! Now I spend 70% of my browsing time on Reddit, just passively seeing what other people have found.
It’s time to get back out there!
I don’t know that they’re forgetting it. Both types of forum exist here. There’s plenty of general-purpose instances, but there’s plenty of specific instances too. At a casual glance, maybe a third of the instances on the join-lemmy list? startrek.website is a Star Trek-focused instance. programming.dev is a programming-focused instance. lennygrad.ml is a marxism-focused instance. There’s a wet shaving instance, there’s a cyberpunk instance, there’s a solarpunk instance, there’s a magic: the gathering instance, there’s a dungeons and dragons instance, there’s a pathfinder instance, there’s a science instance, there’s a science & nature instance, there’s SEVERAL furry instances, there’s a general anime/manga instance and also instances for specific anime or manga, hell there’s an instance just for butts.
If you want to join a focused instance and focus on that topic, just like old-style forums, that’s already just a thing you can do. You don’t have to take advantage of federation.
My opinion on the matter is that one should always try talking to a professional if they suspect they have ADHD. Our understanding of it is limited, but in my experience at least, getting to try meds is what cemented it; the fact that amphetamine slows me down, directs my thoughts, and lets me focus on what I want to do is a world of difference from the experience of average neurotypical person taking amphetamine.
And even if you don’t have it, and/or meds aren’t for you, then even so, just from the fact you think you might have it implies to me that you feel you have some symptoms/traits in common, and so you might benefit from learning some of the coping strategies ADHD people develop to deal with those symptopms/traits.
It’s always better to try and know everything you can and open every option available to you, imo.
Absolutely, back in the narrow window of 2009-2010. Everyone who worked there got laid off and needed new jobs, so there was nothing suspicious about a swarm of resumes hitting that claimed to work there. I myself got sick of working at a gas station, so I applied at a local office business, slapped “Department Manager - Circuit City (2007-2009)” on my resume, and started earning double my wage for half the work.
Once I left that job and started a computer repair business out of my home, I started covering my friends resumes similarly. Pal needs a reference for a hotel job? Lemme tell ya, he’s been the head of my janitorial staff for three years, and I’m choked to see him go! Buddy needs a reference for an accounting job? Why, she’s an Excel wizard who’s been doing my books since day one! The only thing HR ever notices is whether the business has a phone number, and maybe a logo and a website.
I’ve had to take ambulances many times in my country, and it’s the same here. Triage is triage, I would be shocked if it worked differently… anywhere. If ambulances got you seen faster, it would be at the expense of someone who needed treatment more, and that’s bad from both a healthcare perspective (you will save fewer patients) and a financial perspective (dead patients don’t pay).
I’m on Vivaldi so I don’t know how many of these are available to Firefox. Leaving out all the obvious ones like adblocker, password manager, userscripts, etc.
Privacy Pass; do less captchas. Every time you solve a captcha, it stores a few “tokens” in your browser, essentially verifying you as human extra times at once. The next few times you encounter the same brand of catcha, your browser will “spend” one of those tokens to automatically be treated as high confidence, skipping the captcha.
Bot Sentinel; puts a little score next to people’s names on Twitter, showing how often they’ve been reported to the Bot Sentinel site for various things like spam, trolling, or hatespeech; it’s nice to know at a glance when you just shouldn’t engage with someone.
Jiffy Reader; when it’s enabled, hilights the first couple letters of every word, which is great for ADHD because it makes your automatic reflex be to look at each word one at a time, rather than skim the whole section.
Teleparty; watch netflix, etc, with friends, with a little built-in chatroom
Trim; show IMDB/Rotten Tomato ratings on netflix, etc, thumbnails; a real minor tweak, but I’m a big fan
Beyond20 and the VTT Enhancement Suite; specialized D&D addons that made playing online so much easier during the pandemic. Beyond20 pipes your character sheet macro rolls from D&D Beyond directly into Roll20, and VTTES adds all sorts of bonus functionality to Roll20.
