It’s annoying because even after finding someone who is into it, there are always weirdos or people who u feel u can’t trust too much with u being that vulnerable
I’d say maybe 4/5 times on a night out I’ll get flirted with.
I am the only goth in my friend group really haha
I have spoken to them about my sex life but not these specific kinks
Idk tbh, I’m the manager at a hotel so I’ve never really had any problems with finding employment but I can see why it could be difficult. I just think people’s personal lives and the way they dress etc. shouldn’t be a reason to refuse them employment in general