Pollux

“Nymph”, as translated from Slavic languages.

It’s often good! giggle

Only monogamous relationship for me, yeah.

I did try other options, friends with benefits and stuff, but nothing actually compares to me, not even close, with the partner who intimately knows me, cares about me on all levels, and knows of all the things that turn me on.

Besides, sex in relationships is a continuation of a deeper feeling, a way to express love and a special kind of gentleness. Yeah, I’d say sex is very romantic to me.

But nothing bad with other options if you’re into it! Monogamous folks are often portrayed as boring puritans who tell people what to do, so I’ll stress that - you do you, but my drive works this way. And boy can monogamous sex get kinky…

No, as I said, I do not welcome hookups and would not appreciate if she’d go randomly fucking with everyone before dating me.

I said already I don’t have insecurity about past partners or retroactive jealousy. It’s just gross to me.

Yes, that’s what I did.

I explained my issue to her in a gentle way and offered the condoms I bought myself. She immediately accepted it, to which I’m thankful.

Also, right on spot, I do have diagnosed OCD.

I see, interesting!

Also, I wish you to recover as much as possible

That’s my point - those are not “unexpected hook-ups” (I never feel comfortable with those), those are events in a relationship they could absolutely prepare for, and something that normally comes with a greater level of intimacy.

Changing a bed is unreasonably costly, materially and financially, besides, bed is not necessarily associated with sex.

Getting new condoms is a matter of spending beer money at a nearest pharmacy.

So much gentle love between you two!

Wishing you all the happiness <3