RadioactiveFrenulum

r/sounding

There’s no equivalent community on lemmy yet unfortunately.

Personally not a fan of any fakes, let alone when it’s so obviously unnatural. And yes, too big.

Seems like you’ve made your decision and are just looking for validation. This is not a healthy attitude and there’s a strong chance you’ll regret it later on. If it were me I’d say don’t do it.

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Why choose the one where the poo comes out?

It’s different. I’m not crazy about it myself but I have done it and can appreciate it. It’s certainly tighter for the guy, and some girls enjoy receiving it. I (a guy) enjoy receiving anal also - it’s where your prostate is and it’s a sensitive area which is enjoyable to stimulate. If you haven’t tried it I strongly recommend exploring, as otherwise you’re leaving a lot of potential enjoyment on the table - it’s like a girl never trying playing with her clit. Girls don’t have the prostate but the anus is still sensitive, and sexual enjoyment can be just as much about the idea of doing something fun than the direct stimulation - see all fetishes.

You don’t usually involve the poo, unless you’re into that. You clean first, inside and out. It’s an extra step of prep which means it can’t be as spontaneous. If you’re put off by bodily fluids, or stink/bacteria, then I have bad news for you about vaginas. Mouths are also not “designed” for sex and yet you probably still enjoy blowjobs.

It was working earlier, but now none of the videos are playing.

edit: for me PrivacyBadger was blocking the videos from playing. In the extension settings I changed “pornhub.com” from “block entirely” to “block cookies”, which allowed the videos to play for me. I also blocked “googletagmanager” entirely while I was in there and didn’t notice a problem.

I don’t get any of it. Many of these things seem like they should be discussed with a therapist and not harboured and defended as a kink

Strong disagree. Kinks are not mental illnesses. People like what they like, people have fun in their own ways. Expressing that is not inherently wrong. Illegal stuff is different but if everyone is on board and having harmless fun then it’s all good.

People can express mental illness via weird kinks, but weird kinks are not mentally ill.