Make sure you stay hydrated!

What y’all looking forward to this month? I’m just glad to clear off a bunch of work stuff and I got various craft and preloved markets to look forward to.

Yes. I am right now, one of the best versions of myself emotionally and psychologically. I would love to spend some time with someone who geeks about the same things, committed to learning and growth, and wouldn’t have a problem with taking time away from each other to still be our own person.

I sokong this idea.

Doesn’t have to be lunch. Could be a post-work outing with another one or two colleagues who are good at breaking the ice and knows the agenda.

And then ditch F31 and M28 halfway.

Wow, this is harder to answer than I thought.

Yes to relatively normal, well-taken photos showing the person in a range of activities/places/moods. They are only showing their personality and interests, after all.

No to:

• only group photos
• no photos of the person at all, just items or abstract pics
• 3-5 of the same front camera, looking-down-at-phone photo
• photos that seem outdated, especially if it’s of an older man with one child (classic scammer)
• holding a fish

There could be minimal screening for age range and other basic criteria, but speed dating is just giving people a limited amount of time to swap vibes with another person before they decide if they would like to see the other person again. For matchmaking, I expect a more thorough screening.

But your experience sounds rather dodgy, like she was screening for people who have the money.

OMG yes, Sima Aunty is so entertaining. I can’t wait for the next season.

Jewish Matchmaking was a bit hard to get into for some reason, but I gave it another go recently and finished it.

3 days from Lawas to Kuching is possible but knowing the road condition it won’t be fun.

The route we took was fine. Probably the most unusual part for me was having the VIP escort the entire way. That said, there were long stretches of roads where we won’t see any civilisation for hours. I’ve gone to Ulu Pelagus via timber roads and THAT was a ride.

That aside, how are Sarawakians feeling about 60 years of independence?

Macam biasa jer. Just stay away from the city centre unless you want to be part of the jam festivities. 😏

This is based on The Button.

This is an exceptionally long road trip. I was on a similar one some years ago but it was about 10 days. It took about 3 days to drive from one end of Sarawak to the other at a minimum speed of 100km/hr, stopping for no red lights (got police outriders). And double the time if you make courtesy call stops.

Once in a lifetime adventure because I 11/10 will not do again. 😂