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sachasage

sachasage@lemmy.world
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Beans is memes

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Has been in earnest since about 2014 by my watch

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Let’s see if this works

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I’m a woman and child

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You’re right. Narcissists are generally very concerned with what other people think - specifically about them.

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If you really want to help this person I’d suggest being a friend to him. Don’t talk about the stuff you disagree on. Every time he mentions it, be very clear that you emphatically disagree and that the positions that he holds cause you harm. Do not get drawn into a debate, just states how it negatively affects you and end the conversation. If he can accept that boundary then you can build a friendship, and that friendship will eventually provide you with the sufficient mutual respect to potentially begin to change minds with open and vulnerable conversation. It has to be a real friendship though, you can’t be faking it.

That’s all a lot of energy and effort, but it’s the kind of sustained relational support that can effectively promulgate change.

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Sure, it’s the nature of it. Good cheap way to get a quick meal in London if you don’t care what you get

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I’ve used it a little. The bags can be very unpredictable. Whether it’s a good deal or not often feels a bit like a roll of the dice which seems to make it necessarily more of a novelty

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It’s the same picture

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