Thank you :)

Oh I agree. I struggle with depression and anxiety myself. But, I try really hard to keep my shit together, even when I feel terrible. I don’t feel like she’s putting in the same effort.

Not at first. This is fairly recent. She already gets snippy about me not helping that much around the house. I do help but I’m not taking on half of the work.

Yeah, that’s what it’s looking like they want.

I’m not ok with that. It’s just not really feasible to live off one income these days.

Not currently. But as soon as we get married.

After kids are in school. They’re expecting full support during the whole first years of kids.

They do have ADHD and is medicated. I know it can be an impediment and try to support them. I’m not sure how much longer I can be OK with little to no progress.

Cry and make excuses.

I think it would take an outside influence (from another universe or something) to have it change. Could be wrong though.