Just for something different your partner is positioned over the side of a bed. Feet on the floor with waist to head laying flat on the bed. You spread lots of lube in the crack of her ass. Maybe do a bit of ass cheek massage. Do not touch her anus and do not exhibit any intent of wanting to ass fuck her.
You also cover your cock thick in lube. Now you just allow your cock to slide back and forth across the crack of her ass. You are stimulating her anus but never actually penetrating it with your cock. You are about to explode and let her know that it’s coming. You shoot long ropes up her back. As you finish your final dribbles rest in her ass crack.
One NO NO is try to avoid having one of your shooting ropes to reach her hair. There seems to be a big taboo of even a bit of semen in the hair.
This form of getting off will sometimes lead to regular anal. You haven’t asked for it. But the stimulation of your cock across her anus may sometimes put her in the mood for regular anal. Several times as I was just cruising across the crack of her ass she has asked me to please shove my cock into her ass.
LOL. And I have to agree. I think it goes back to grammar school days when as boys start to approach puberty there is a constant conversation about fucking girls. Every possible sexual activity is joked about using the most crude terms available. And I have found that no matter how old they get, males still talk about sex like they were teenagers. Two really old guys sitting in a bar. A young woman walks by that could be their granddaughter and they can still have a conversation about wanting to fuck her and how they envision doing it.