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Are you disregarding your partner’s needs here?

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One would hope that you’d solve issues like that before getting married. Whether that means an open marriage, having a partner who’s also ace, finding ways to fulfill your partners needs without having sex yourself, etc.

You’re not wrong, but I think most married couples that involve someone who’s ace would have that problem solved by the time they get to marriage.

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Yeah.

I think “love your partner, but don’t wanna fuck 'em” implies you’ve already failed in this regard.

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Why isn’t the partner doing the same in that situation?

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