I accidentally misgender trans people all the time. Never have I ever been accused of being transphobic because I handle it like calling someone the wrong name accidentally. I quickly correct myself and move on, and actively do my best to remember their pronouns going forward.

Sure, it takes half a braincell of effort at first, but then it becomes easier. This is a strategy known as “not being a dick”.

That said I call everyone Carl because I’m too lazy to learn everyone’s name, and I don’t want to walk on eggshells to make sure I don’t call someone the wrong name accidentally./s

Dude, don’t listen to bullshit propaganda. Actually talk to trans people and find out what they think.

But accidentally misgendering someone is often considered paramount to taking part in the holocaust

Just because 4chan and Fox News says so, doesn’t make it true

“you know what? fuck you. I’m going to misgender you out of spite”

Gosh it sure seems like you’re just making excuses to be a spiteful petty asshole to groups you don’t like