โBeing confidentโ is dangerously close to straight up bothering people. Plus it only really works if youโre good looking.
Iโm going to say the same thing I say every time someone claims โthis only works if youโre good lookingโ.
Danny Devito gets laid. He got laid before he married. He got laid before he broke out as a star in Taxi. There are very, very, very, very few people who would look at Danny Devito and say โWow, that guyโs good-looking!โ
Confidence is very much a necessary trait in the dating scene, and it makes up for a whole lot of other negatives (often, sadly, to the detriment of those who fall under its spell).