Important clarification/FAQ
I am not calling to coddle or excuse the behavior of bigoted men in any way!
I am calling to be kind and understanding to young men (often ages 10-20) who are very manipulable and succeptible to the massive anti feminist propaganda machine. Hope this clarifies that very important distinction. :)
Very good comments that express key points:
- Detailed summary of the situation if you’re wondering what’s going on
- The rhetorical value of the bear hypothetical and what this means for you
- One example of why the long-term rhetorical value of the hypothetical is poor, in the context of intersectionality
- What does disenfranchisement mean in this context?
- The importance of not asking women to tone down their expressions of fear and frustration
- “But why can’t they just say it nicely?”
- The importance of participation in kindness toward young men, specifically outside the context of people speaking their experiences
Edit: This post has now been removed and restored twice. I want to encourage you all:
Be decent to one another
I think this post is a valuable thing given the current state of the Fediverse, please don’t fuck it up for us by being toxic in the comments.
“Unknown men” includes me if they don’t know me.
You are specifically choosing to put yourself in that group and then get offended by it. That’s no one else’s problem but your own. Yes, I’m dismissing what you say, because you keep trying to portray yourself as a victim when it has nothing to do with you. You’re not a victim just because a woman who doesn’t know you would choose not to be alone with you.
You’re not a victim just because a woman who doesn’t know you would choose not to be alone with you.
In no way have I ever said I was this. You’ve not been listening to anything I’ve said.
I’d like to not be in this conversation with you. Respect that. Goodbye.
Especially the ones who dismiss things by saying “this isn’t about you” when it is about everyone who is impacted by it.
They definitely feel they have a right to express their desire, because as a man… I’m obviously trying to fuck everything in sight. (Sarcasm)
I feel uncomfortable around unknown women
Tell me again how you don’t portray yourself as a victim.
I’d like to not be in this conversation with you.
The feeling is mutual. Have a nice day.
