I just noticed that
- people don’t read my comments as much here as on Lemmy so I get way fewer replies
- someone replied to me and I didn’t see it in my notifications, even after tapping Notifications, so I had to go to the thread where he replied to me, check out all my 10+ comments, and see that one of them had a reply. I saw no other way to find this.
Do you have your notifications enabled in the Settings tab of your account? If you click on your account name and select Settings, on the General tab underneath the Writing and Privacy sections should be the notification section to choose what to enable.
I have had reply notifications off on reddit due to the pedantic, combative, “talk at you” atmosphere that metastisized over the years - so I was pleasantly surprised.
IMO - the first thing you should do with new software or services is go over the settings because the defaults are likely not for your benefit.
Opt-in philosophy > opt-out. You want it? You enable it.
what is this “talk at you” atmosphere?
and i know that you should check the settings but i’m just a bit dumb and, while i know it, i don’t always do it, because i forget :) but yeah i’ve always known that’s best practice.