What would be a good sign coming out of such people?

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When they do not return the grocery cart to the cart corral.

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I doubt you can judge someone as bad based off that

EDIT: I’m gonna go with better terms here: Not responsible enough and ignorant, I still don’t believe someone can be considered bad as a person for this.

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There are two main reasons you wouldn’t return carts to a cart return location:

  1. Fuck them people

  2. My time is worth more than this

At the very least the person is inconsiderate, and worst a complete psychopath. Both are not great signs, and all the ones between are also not positive aspects.

You’d think something that small wouldn’t be much of an indication on a person’s overall nature, but it’s nearly always the little things that add up to the whole thing.

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Yes. How one thinks of/treats hired help is a big clue.

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I understand where you are coming from, but most people who do this at times are more likely just ignorant than even “fuck them people”. In-fact, the walmart near me has a guy waiting outside along with the security most of the time to collect carts once the store closes, so many people are like “he is going to collect all the leftover carts anyways”.

Especially for those who have parked their cars a bit away, I really doubt such people are going to return all the way just to put a cart on the cart return location, rather than just putting the car on the side and just take off with their car.

To make things worse, there are staff on stores often these days that organize and collect leftover carts, so it’s been a while since I have seen a good chunk of people return their carts to their return location, especially from parking lots, unless they are close to that return spot.

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15 points

OP doesn’t put his cart back! Shame!

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Wow, arguing another perspective (with a valid arguement) made me a victim, RIP

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It’s actually a great indicator as to their view of the social contract and obligations to others.

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Cart Narcs demonstrates that you can lol

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There’s two possible scenarios

  1. you think your time is more valuable than others, thus making you an asshole
  2. you simply don’t give a fuck about inconveniencing others, again making you an asshole
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5 points

Someone sounds like they are projecting…

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I find the people who judge others based on cart return status are the real assholes.

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Just put your cart back already.

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Yeah I mean, I have seen people do that countless times at the walmart near my house for example, I feel like that’s just calling a very high portion of the population to be bad people unfairly.

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I mean… you asked people for red flags that someone is a bad person, not ‘what actions make someone a bad person’.

I think they’re right and Cart Narc did all the field research for us.

Check it out

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I’d say it’s conditional. At a certain point, it’s on the business themselves. For example, a giant parking lot with one or two cart returns only, in a front corner.

A massive sprawling Walmart parking lot with only one return, and I had to park really far away, and it’s super busy and trying to get the cart to the return requires going through multiple rows? I’m a goodie two shoes who will clean up after others, and tries to improve places… but I’ve got limits with time, effort, and desire to deal with crowds of people in parking lots.

If they have good placement though, then yes, it’s absolutely on the individual.

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Unless you have a medical reason for not being able to walk to the front to return it, you’re still an asshole if you don’t.

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Not disagreeing with you here, but just for fun, what would you say about a restaurant asking you to wash your own dishes when you’re finished with your meal?

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This is the kind of balanced, nuanced take that will get you absolutely murderlated with downvotes.

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“But I have to walk a bit further!” Is not a reason to be an inconsiderate asshole

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Oh man. I live not too far from a Walmart (about 3 miles by car, but 1 by foot with shortcuts). Recently, someone in my neighborhood has started walking to Walmart, filling their cart, then just bringing the cart home with them and abandoning it on the access road in our neighborhood. We are 6 carts deep and my anger towards the perpetrator grows every day.

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This is such a strange phenomenon to me. In all the countries I’ve lived in, all but a few select stores have a dongle on each cart that takes a coin to unlock it from the chain of other carts. It’s perhaps the cost of a back of toilet paper, but that seems to be sufficient for it to be exceedingly rare to see an abandoned cart. One can only imagine that any such carts are quick prey for enterprising teens looking for a quick boost to their candy fund.

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