The important thing is to be able to recognize which things are harmless and which are harmful. There’s plenty of both. When something seems like it could be sketchy, it’s ok to discuss it.

Defending a famous, rich, rape apologist whose organization is doing more for hurting legal sex work than helping solve illegal sex trafficking is kind of mark behavior.

To me, when a person shows their true colors, I automatically need to assume their past actions had ulterior motives.

I just tried to explain what I thought the commenter was saying. He was being glib, and a little derisive. In any case, you play the same game and I can read your frustrations clearly. You justifiably tried to defend your position, but chose the wrong way of doing it.

I recommend taking a break a few days from comment section, even social media. Just get it out of your head for a while, try to find balance again. Social media can be very provocative and even infuriating at times. But it doesn’t help you to fight passive aggressive statements with aggressive statements.

In any case, I hope you take care of yourself and that you are well.