I prefer the terms hetero and cishets
Whatâs offensive is using someoneâs sexuality as an insult as stated in the OP. It doesnât matter how you try to justify it. Itâs a dick move. I donât care if youâre gay. Iâm also gay. It doesnât give anyone the right to be an asshole.
Iâm literally just saying donât insult anyone based on their sexuality. Thatâs it. Nothing more nothing less. The rest you are making up in your mind. Itâs wild to me how a conversation can go from âdonât use someones sexuality as an insultâ to âyou donât care that gay people are getting executedâ without me saying literally anything about straight people or gay people.