I loved Reddit for what it is, but nothing made me back out of a post faster than seeing the top 3 parent threads as a regurgitation of the same inside jokes, pun-chains, and so on.
Tildes developer has openly said they don’t intend for it be a replacement for reddit, and that kinda is what makes me come here instead.
If they aren’t open to the idea, it will never happen.
Not saying they should open the floodgates either, it’s mainly that the use cases and end goal for Tildes vs Lemmy are completely different