I’m 41F. I was married but separated 8 years ago. I was still young but was very traumatized and never really wanted another relationship. Lately I’ve been feeling a little lonely and would like to meet some new people but I moved and don’t have many friends here and the ones I have are younger and do younger people things (like going out at night. I’m too old for that lol). I wanted to meet some people my age, friends or dates, but almost everyone is married. I do cooking and French classes but again, only young people do that and I’m the “odd old lady”. I think people past 40 don’t really have hobbies or money to spend on them. I’m overweight so I can’t really use apps, and to be honest don’t really want. So how a single woman without kids (can’t have it) meet people?! Or do I just give up?! lol
Same way a man meets people: meetup.com
Was going to share this. I’ve had a lot of fun on there in the past. One of the best parts is if you’re in a good sized group, nobody is weirded out of you go say hi and introduce yourself and start talking because they are all there for the same thing.
I’ve also found some great activities, like random capture the flag with dozens of people that I haven’t played since high school otherwise.
