2 points

Sorry, 17?

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Hell yeah 🧙‍♂️

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Virginity is fake and made up.

Also sex is fun but not some revelatory experience(but what do I know, Im just a lesbian, a group which famously has many more orgasms than average), eo not base your self esteem on having it or not having it.

It also isn’t a substitute for intimacy, which when I talk to people who are weird about not having sex, I see them conflate needing a hug or to express their feelings with having sex.

Rant over.

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Thank you for your rant.

To add: Your SO is not a replacement for a social network. Don’t hunt for the one, place people you click with at all distance levels as you get to know them. A healthy social network leads to healthy relationships.

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To be fair, Someone that has “more orgasms than average” saying not to worry about it is like a rich guy saying money doesn’t buy happiness.

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No, it is like a rich guy saying “Money doesn’t make you more mature, spiritually enlightened or a better person”

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6 points

Was 23 before I lost mine. Wasn’t even fun.

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8 points

fuck im 17 for only 9 more months wtf do I do

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So… how are you doing so far?

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Masturbate furiously until you fuck someone

On a more serious note, there is something good about not getting that need satisfied. Everyone’s different, but I have noticed a tendency in people that get that need satisfied very early on, and those that don’t.

There are definitely exceptions to this, but generally speaking, I have noticed those that get that need met have less excuses to grow, or sometimes grow so much with the person they love, that they end up losing a bit of themself

Outside of my own experiences, there’s a YouTube channel I found recently “HealthyGamerGG”, really cool stuff there

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8 points

Stop sweating it. Don’t focus on it when meeting people. It’ll happen, and it’ll be better if you come to it by being an enjoyable human being.

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Jokes aside, it’s all about confidence. If anything, fake it 'till you make it. I was terrible with girls for a long time until I stopped caring and just went for it. Then I was amazed how easy it was.

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8 points

That is excellent good advice that everyone should follow and implement fully.

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I only have 5 months now.

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5 points

Lower your standards?

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9 points

Hole is a hole.

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