Crossposted this in case of takedown. Hope this isn’t breaking the rules.

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/1370464

Original Title: At least one lemmy.world admin accepted an off the record meeting with meta, and they won’t tell you about it.

Edit: I cannot confirm if the Original OP is telling the truth or lying, figured I wanted more people to see this so you can decide for yourselves who to believe.

Edit 2: Archived Link: https://archive.is/aJrnU

Edit 3: Hmm… Interesting… The original post was taken down instead of admins making a response. I mean, if I were an admin with nothing to hide, I’d just simply say “I did not have a secret meeting with anyone representing Meta/Facebook” then maybe lock the thread if stuff gets too out of hand. Deleting a post is not the right thing to do, and even if you are innocent, now you just made yourself look bad.

Edit 4: I appreciate the fact that the mods elected to use the lock thread option instead of outright removing this post. I do not agree with your decision, but I respect the fact that you left this post up. Alright, so that’s the end of this, hopefully the next time someone make accusations, they provide evidence. Also, if you are making a legitimate accusation, make sure to crosspost to different instances to make takedowns more difficult. So to conclude this, I want to state these facts:

  1. The Original OP did not seem to have provided any evidence.

  2. The Original Post was removed and the Original OP was banned from the community which the post was in.

  3. None of the admins of lemmy.world made a statement in response to the accusations.

You can draw whatever conclusion you want from this. But without any further information, this discussion cannot continue any longer, since a mod has already locked this post.

Archive Link of where the page was, now showing an error message: https://archive.is/5BWIw

Don’t belive me? Ask them.

Fosstodon admins were at least transparent and shared with their community when they were approached by meta for an off the record meeting, which was awesome. They also declined that meeting and shared screenshots of them doing so.

But lemmy.world admins won’t tell you that at least one of them accepted that same meeting request. Why won’t they say that?

Tell your community that you accepted a meeting with meta. Thats not wrong in and of itself, but I feel it is shady/not right when you’re communicating about a wait-and-see approach, while having meetings with the company in question yet not being transparent about it.

@ruud@lemmy.world care to comment?

Also, I’m spinning up my own instance because I don’t trust this platform to folks who aren’t transparent. Don’t ask me to join, it’s going to be just for me for now. I don’t even know that I have time to admin an instance, but my trust is wearing thin based on the facts at hand. So, it’s what I’m doing.

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So we wouldn’t honestly be allowed to know legally without getting that admin in trouble.

i have no idea whether any of the speculations are true or not, but purely theoretically, this is really lame excuse. if you are representing open source community, you shouldn’t be taking meetings where you have to sign nda.

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It gives them a secret way to start deeper negotiations. Pretty much this is the end of any openness and community focus the instance has. The contents don’t matter as much as the symbolism of having participated. I’ll ask you Alethecrow, how many millions would it take you to agree to working for them and pretending to be working only for yourself?

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All that matters about the OPs claim is that the admins need to say they aren’t contracted with meta, but they haven’t, which is damning evidence that they have signed at least one contract with Meta.

It’s simple logic.

  1. Lies or truths about an NDA silenced meeting with Mastodon admins.
  2. Extrapolating that idea that an NDA may exist or have been signed onto all instance admins
  3. Asking for a statement from the admins proving that there are no NDAs in place with Meta by the lemmy.world admins

Then reliable absolute silence about being contracted or not with Meta. Followed of course by mass downvotes when it makes no sense to do so.

See all the bots saying the same silly responses over and over about no evidence, then massively downvoting people who are clearly rational.

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I did actually switch from lemmy.world to lemmy.ml and turn off recurring donations just off of the weak admin announcement they made about Threads like “let’s just wait n see, hmmkay?”

Umm. No, you’re in an anti-corporate environment full of refugees from greedy Reddit and you can’t denounce one of the worst corporate actors in the social media space and promise to have nothing to do with them? I have no idea if OP’s story is true, but I do know that they’re not the instance for me just from what they HAVE been willing to say.

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What a ridiculous attempt at stirring a pot. Not only is it someone saying something that cannot be proven, but someone quoting someone saying something that cannot be proven….

What if I were to spread it around that this is all a ploy from Reddit to fuck with the lemmy community and cause drama?

Embarrassing.

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People using an instance that appears to try to act and communicate transparently and asks for donations from the community to run the platform, should actually be transparent in my opinion.

People can just go somewhere else, and no one is obligated to say or do anything, but users appear to value transparency, and I feel as a collective we should value open and honest discussion about issues like this rather than shutting it down or being confrontational or argumentative or rude about it.

It might be nothing, it might be something: either way, people are entitled to feel they deserve to be kept informed. Whether they are entitled to or not is a different kettle of fish.

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OP is asking for confirmation in an announcement - Copy pasting from my comment here


All that matters about the OPs claim is that the admins need to say they aren’t contracted with meta, but they haven’t, which is damning evidence that they have signed at least one contract with Meta.

It’s simple logic.

  1. Lies or truths about an NDA silenced meeting with Mastodon admins.
  2. Extrapolating that idea that an NDA may exist or have been signed onto all instance admins
  3. Asking for a statement from the admins proving that there are no NDAs in place with Meta by the lemmy.world admins

Then reliable absolute silence about being contracted or not with Meta.

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So if they don’t say they didn’t when asked if they did, then ipso facto, they did?

I don’t think you or anyone gets to make that distinction. And the fact that you think you can, illustrates how this is an attempt at creating drama.

How about this:

Maybe it’s a dumb fucking question that they don’t feel obligated to answer? I mean, I would imagine that it’s damn near insulting to them to feel they have any reason to answer such a stupid and irrelevant question as it’s not up to you how they manage their instance.

So yea. It’s purposefully stirring a pot. So stop.

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The OP seemed desperate for confirmation before he felt compelled to leave. He was talking rationally in his post.

If you have an entire secret meeting that’s NDA enforced, then you literally cannot speak about the existence or your participation in it legally.

As a server admin, he should really be on top of stuff like this. It’d be a fairly quick thing to mention, and the fact that he didn’t means he likely signed an NDA. He doesn’t NEED to prove it, but everyone should turn their backs on him for not CHOOSING to prove it(because he likely cannot legally).

Many people came here to escape exactly what is now happening. There will obviously be passionate people venting or trying to understand this. The people that are on your side though, tend to fight dirty and say invalid things. Meta is evil, i don’t want to be near it, a contract with meta starts the death of a thousand cuts, and people wont remember what we are saying when they finally leave.

Meta is stirring the pot, the admins are. If i just knew they stood against what the average FOSS server stands for in their FAQ or something I would have never gone there, and neither would the people complaining. I can’t stress just how bad this is, but most people don’t know the deeper political/corporate side of this.

I’m not starting convos about this anymore, just replying to other comments and the likes. I’d rather we get some basic transparency from the admins nearby, but I already left over it because of it.

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Nah I get to make that distinction

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Why are we assuming some random person knows that a lemmy.world admin went to the Meta meeting based on “just trust me bro” and then the lemmy.world admins must make a statement. lemmy.world has 15 thousand weekly active users. They can’t possibly be held to the standard of making a statement every single time one of them makes some unsubstantiated accusation, or people who have some minor annoyance with lemmy.world will spend their time filling the admins’ time with constant statements about all the accusations they’re receiving.

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The answer to this scenario built into the fediverse. You bail on the bad instance and move to a new one. If the problem of profile transfers can be solved, then the whole thing becomes fairly trivial.

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Does profile transfer even matter?

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It does if you want to migrate your favorites and subscriptions.

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I think it does, others may not think it does.

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There is already a tool for this.

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https://github.com/CMahaff/lasim

Profile transfer tool

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I wish Lemmy provided ability to transfer ownership of posts/comments too. With subscriptions I can easily manually do it myself

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So… we’re just repeating unverifiable rumors now? What is this, high school? What’s the next post going to be, a list of who has a crush on who? Please.

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The fediverse is particularly bad in this respect. In my time here (since Nov 2022) I’ve come to treat any unsubstantiated negative ad hominem opinion as essentially “fake news” … and honestly, everyone should. Twice I’ve paid attention to “an issue” as it was gaining traction and both times I’ve seen, in real time, the “chinese whispers” effect result in the “story” mutate right in people’s “mouths” as they post about it. Honestly, it’s worth chasing down such a thing at least once just to see it in action … it’s quite revelatory.

It’s “sea lioning” to ask for receipts … but if you’re polite and well-meaning about it I think it’s totally justifiable about these sorts of things, not least because you’ll be surprised how many people just don’t have any (sometimes even when they loudly claim they do)! But also, because the rumour mill effect is real, sea lioning, at some point becomes a valuable antidote.

There are probably a few factors that make this bad here (not that it’s good on any social media platform):

  1. Fediverse is kinda anti-viral … no algorithms etc
  2. But … bad news and scandalous rumours are the original viral algorithm baked into human psychology, so they have a way of rising to the surface in the absence of the generic rage/engagement about anything/everything that big-social feeds provide
  3. There are real and valuable concerns on the fediverse about ensuring the “culture” here doesn’t get bad and that certain values or morals are upheld. While good, such is an excuse for some to get zealous and excited to an excessive extent in the pursuit of and engagement with scandalous rumours.

Combine that with how easy and satisfying it is to simply post a false/unsubstantiated statement without any consequences, and you get a rumour mill.

Getting back to point 3 above … a valuable an important perspective on that is that actually achieving those goals is not a simple or trivial task. Instead, it is likely a boring, collaborative and deliberative task. So, the moment there’s any amount of excitement and engagement around a “bad person or act” on here … the moment you feel the need to click, read and respond … you’re probably just being driven by engagement habits and reflexes and not at all contributing to the goals and values that the “bad actor” has allegedly compromised.

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That being said, on this point, I think it’s justifiable to ask for a clear statement from your admin about what relations they have with meta and what the federation or defederation policy is regarding threads. That was so ages ago, and IMO, fediverse admins have a thing or two to learn about being healthily communicative and transparent.

It’s a growing pain as the fediverse transitions from “hacker side project” to “mainstream” … on which … be sure to donate and be part of the dialogue with admins as it’s probably the best way to organically evolve the culture around this.

Ruud seems to me pretty transparent about things but I don’t know what has or hasn’t been said about meta/threads as I’m not on any of their instances. Given the size of their mastodon instance (top 5 IIRC), however, it’s very likely he was at least contacted and, I’d wager probably did have some meeting of some sort.

Given the *.world instances are essentially mainstream, I’m going to bet that lemmy.world won’t defederate from Threads … which is honestly a reasonable position. But it’s also very reasonable to not want to be on such an instance and move.

IMO, there doesn’t need to be “drama” around this. The fediverse isn’t one thing with one culture and one set of values. *diverse is literally in the name. Having options and freedom of association is the whole damn point. Talk, work out where you stand and where others stand and then act appropriately. There’s no giant conspiracy to destroy the fediverse here … we’re more likely to do that to ourselves with out propensity for “drama”.

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So, the moment there’s any amount of excitement and engagement around a “bad person or act” on here … the moment you feel the need to click, read and respond … you’re probably just being driven by engagement habits and reflexes and not at all contributing to the goals and values that the “bad actor” has allegedly compromised.

Ha! You’ve done a very good job of explaining why I was reluctant to reply at all, even to comment on how silly the whole thing seems. I didn’t want to throw fuel on the fire. I did it anyway, though, and just did again. Oh well.

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Can we please shut up about Meta, there’s not a single point in the conversation, everyone has made up their mind, and now are spreading stupid school rumors, like, what the fuck y’all.

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If you don’t like pizza, don’t go into a pizza shop and tell them to shut up about pizza? You coulda downvoted and moved on.

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No, but if I go to a site that I enjoy, and I see people constantly bitching and complaining about a single issue that we’ve all been over already, and I think maybe it’s enough?

We can make better content than this.

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There are honorable easy to talk about complaints, and there are dishonorable annoying people that can’t be reasoned with. The issue would be resolved in a minute if both parties were civil. This is an existential threat for lemmy.

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Such a horrible analogy. How about-

If you LIKE pizza, and don’t like people making up bullshit unprovable stories about it- they should be sent packing.

This is a bullshit story without any substance or merit. It should be dismissed, and those staring the bullshit should be called out.

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I’ve seen your username all over this thread and every single one of your comments was unpleasant. Yet you accused others of “stirring the pot” and “starting drama”. I don’t have an opinion one way or the other, I wasn’t even going to comment, but I thought that you needed to be called out.

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Strange. I remember someone advertised lemmy to me as reddit alternative. Turns out, its place for circlejerk and being afraid of facebook.

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People weren’t particularly afraid of nazis for a little bit too long too.

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