I had to block a few users yesterday. Today, I noticed about ten notifications from users I’ve blocked—they replied to me, continued to make up lies about my heritage, and I continued to see their comments in my notifications.
It seems that the only effect of my blocking them is that I can no longer see their comments in context—although I am still notified of their harassment. This is quite the opposite effect from the one I was going for—I mean, I’m happy to spend less time engaging with them, but the block feature seems to be guaranteeing these bigots the “last word” and preventing me from even reporting them. They can then follow me anywhere on kbin and continue to harass me, the block function is only stopping me from doing anything about it.
At least one of these users is on the same instance as I am, kbin.social.
Why doesn’t blocking work?
If someone continues to harass you after you’ve blocked them, it’s because they’re lonely and want your attention. I’ve found that offering comforting and condescending words while reverse spamming them with Eleanor Rigby seems to end the harassment quickly… especially when they realize that they can’t block you properly either.
Notifications from blocked users is a bug. There isn’t really anything that can be done about the “last word” thing, though. On reddit-style platforms, the expectation is that blocking a user just hides their posts and comments. If the blocking user’s activity was hidden from the blocked user, then it would be possible to preemptively block someone before defaming them in order to stop them from reporting it.
I’m not aware of any other platform where a blocked user can reply to a blocking user, but it certainly isn’t possible on Reddit.
It used to be possible on Reddit, and people didn’t like the change to how it is now. Because of how it can be (and is being) abused.
A blocked user could never respond to a blocking user on Reddit, to my knowledge. I believe you’re confused.
I may be mistaken on the exact details of how it works on reddit, but allowing non-moderator users to prevent others from replying doesn’t sound like a good idea. For comments, preventing a blocked user from replying directly in a child comment means they’ll just reply in a sibling comment instead. They still get the last word, so the only thing accomplished is to mess up the threading a little bit.
For posts, preventing blocked users from replying gives the poster pseudo-moderator powers over replies. They can block anyone criticizing or disagreeing with them, giving them significant narrative control. Not exactly desirable.
Blocking should only be for filtering what the blocking user sees. It cannot be a substitute for proper moderation.
Blocking is not a moderator-level function, it is quite personal. You’re welcome to continue chatting in the community, just don’t reply to me with any more of your hate speech. I don’t want it anywhere in my comment thread, I don’t have to put up with that shit. Hiding it from me is not a block feature at all, it’s a mute feature. I don’t want to mute them, I don’t want to close my eyes, and pretend I can’t see their hate. I want to stop them from pretending to interact with me, I want them to stop posting bigotry in response to my comments, I want them to go the fuck away.
If they invade some other comment thread, there is no risk that anybody will think, “oh, he just couldn’t come up with a reply to that last bit of bigotry, I guess the bigot won!” If they annoy others, they’ll get downvoted, or the mods will act, whatever—not my business, I’m not looking for a moderation function, I’m looking for a personal function.
I’m not worried about the last word anywhere in the comment section, I’m worried about the last word in my comment thread, where they’re directly harassing me. If they have something worth saying, if they have a narrative worth continuing, it’ll be worth continuing in some other thread, rather than in direct response to me.
And if every user in the community blocks them, they earned it.
This is not moderation. It’s personal.
Alright, let’s pretend that you’ve blocked me, and that this comment is telling everyone that you smell bad. It’s not a direct/child response to your comment, but everyone can see it and knows I’m talking about you. If you don’t respond, then by your logic I’ve “won”, and you must in fact smell bad.
It seems more like you’re taking a stand on stubborn principle than advocating for good user interface design.
On Reddit, blocked users can see but can’t respond to posters that have blocked them.
It wasn’t like that until a few years ago, and people disliked the change.
To clarify, a few years ago, the blocked user could not see the message either. The logic behind the change was, “you can just log out and see it anyway, so what’s the difference?” Most people spend most of their time logged in. The difference is significant.
People dislike change. Besides I see no particular reason kbin should be copying reddit.