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I’m really excited for tonight! I have a fwb coming over. He’s obsessed with nipple play and I always have so much fun when we get together. I bought a new cupless bra to show off in, hopefully he likes it 🤭

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I’d like to know how women find male fwbs. So I can find some women like that, too!

ETA: Also, that sounds really hot and fun. Enjoy yourselves!

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Well we didn’t start out as friends, but we are now! We went on a few of dates and we got along really well. He works out of town a lot so he doesn’t havebtime for a relationship and I’m not looking for anything serious either… I suggested we be fwb and he was happy to accommodate. It’s perfect for me because I don’t have to worry about my safety when we see each other 🙂

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Thanks! How did it go last night? Did you have fun?

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I’ve been seeing someone for a while now. We don’t generally see each other often, and for reasons outside either of our control, we’d never had sex until this weekend. We had a good time, and I learned two very important things. The first is that she gets very loud. So much so that I was genuinely a bit concerned about the neighbours. I’m definitely going to be making sure my windows are closed next time. The second is that she gets very turned on when you bite her on the neck. That’s a handy thing to know.

It might be a while before we see each other again, but you can bet I’ll be taking advantage of that knowledge any time I can.

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Haha aww, this is sweet!

Not sure about biting, but I love being kissed on the neck. I may be like “hurr durr I’m a man, well 'ard, innit” but kiss me on the neck and you can probably get my credit card details off me…

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I recently discovered how overwhelming good kisses on the neck can be. That power bottom had a lot of fun with that. I’m basically incapacitated from the sensation.

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Honestly 100% can relate.

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Went swimming with my girlfriend, ended up skinnydipping, which led to some really nice poolside sex! It was in a private backyard, so the risk was minimal, but this was my first foray into anything remotely “public”, really crazy rush!

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Aayyyy! Glad the Maddie adventures continue!!

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😁 Me too! We started officially using “girlfriend” this week, and I hung out with her and some of her friends at a club and think I got their seal of approval so I’m pretty happy!

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Omg I noticed that “girlfriend” in your post and was like 😏 nice!

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🥰🥰🥰🥰

WE MUST PROTECT MADDIE + GF AT ALL COSTS!!

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7 points

Watched my wife masturbate with a vibrator a couple nights ago while I was locked in a chastity cage for locktober and only allowed to watch. It was very hot.

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Wow! That must’ve been pretty cool (but also pretty difficult to get hard for obvious reasons!)

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If it’s good chastity it’s impossible to get hard!

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Standard disclaimer that there’s gay shit here. ETA: It seems like most other bi guys out there are…weird…

I’m away with family this weekend, but I had a fun week, with lots of new experiences! Though the week also definitely ended strangely. I think I need to focus on building more good connections with fwbs and stay away from random hookups.

Monday

  • Random blowjob I found a guy who works from home really close to my office. As I was leaving work early, I offered to come over and give him a blowjob, no recip, just some worship and cocksucking. He had an hour before a zoom meeting, so I was happy to hop over and oblige. It was really a lot of fun. I never sucked a guy off to completion before — I enjoyed feeling completely in control while I worked on his cock and balls. He was a nice size too, not too difficult but still a mouthful. I think when he’s free I’ll stop by more to continue to practice giving blowjobs.

Tuesday

  • Fucked a power bottom I had been chatting with a guy who describes himself as a power bottom for a while. We decided to meet up for a drink, and ultimately headed back to his place. Guy is hilarious! He was recovering from an injury, so we decided not to try and fuck. However, after a lot of foreplay and cuddling he couldn’t help himself, and I ended up breeding him. He showed me some of his power bottom moves, including his muscle control and his powerful legs. Great kisser, too. When he was screaming my name it felt so hot. He also called me “daddy” a few times which is new to me, but I didn’t mind.

Thursday

  • Introduction to Tantric Sex I had chatted with a local yoga instructor and tantric expert a while back, and when he saw I hadn’t signed up for any of the workshops he recommended, he offered to give me an introduction himself. We didn’t have sex. Instead we talked about tantric philosophy, did some relaxing and energizing warmups, and explored each other’s bodies and the sensations that brought on. It was really interesting, and I felt good and energized afterwards. He’s offered to teach me tantric bj next :-)
  • Cock worship gone wrong a muscular well hung bi guy was looking for guys to come over to worship his muscles and cock, and I thought that would be fun after my tantric lesson. Guy seemed okay when I showed up, said he had had drinks with friends, so definitely a little buzzed. Said he absolutely hates hands so I decided to use my mouth only. I got to work right away, and quickly started to learn how to suck a big uncut cock and have it feel good and stay manageable. After some time I realized the dude was still grabbing a drink, not of water, but of vodka! After a while longer I saw his THC edibles and tinctures on the table. Then I realized he was both drunk and high, and figured I’d get him to cum and move along. Then he told me he doesn’t cum with guys, he just likes getting blowjobs to relax. So I left! What a weird guy. He feels bad now, and has offered to let me hot dog him — slide my cock between his muscular cheeks until I cum. I might do it, might not.
  • Grindr hookup gone weird I was really horny and unsatisfied at this point, and turned to Grindr. A guy a block away offered to come over for a quick sessions. It started steamy right out the gate. He has my cock in his mouth then abruptly asks me “are you close?” And I’m not so he says, “sorry man, I’m not feeling it I’ll jerk off at home”. I ended up cumming all over myself as he’s leaving my place and closing the door.___
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As a hetero male I knew two male sex drives = more sex, but the amount of “sounds nice, let’s do it” is awesome. Have fun exploring!

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It’s really crazy. WIth women it takes a lot longer to get to the point of sexual intimacy. Guys I meet up and have sex with are shocked when I tell them what I go through with women. Maybe I’m just not finding the right women? lol

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Lots of women are very dtf, but try to be cognizant of the fact that for us it’s also a safety issue. Better to spend a little bit of extra time getting to know someone before just cruising to a stranger’s house for cock worship. That kind of scenario can turn dangerous fast if you’re not careful. Cheers.

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Sucks that the hookups got crappier towards the end, but to be fair, you’ve had plenty of fun so far, so it hasn’t been all bad!

That power bottom sounds cute af though. He definitely sounds like a keeper!

Also, I hope you don’t mind me saying, but the muscular dude sounds super weird. Like, who the hell hates hands on cock?? How does he use a urinal?!??!?

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Seriously though the dude had me in stitches all night. Cute guy too. Just sent me a new pic after his haircut today. I don’t think good material for a relationship as his career ambitions aren’t as driven as mine, which is important to me. But maybe a good fwb to hang out and mess around with.

Muscle guy is so weird. It’s upsetting that all my bi bros in the city seem to be so strange. I chatted with him yesterday and he’s still weird. So I’m probably just going to ignore him and move on. I took mouth only as a fun challenge, and honestly yeah it was difficult but also pretty fun to do cock worship like that.

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Ah man, that’s a shame. At least you haven’t completely said goodbye! From your descriptions, I actually would like to meet him myself, who knows - maybe get some fun in!

I’ve spent time in the gym and I have to say the dudes who are extremely muscular more often than not are dealing with some really personal shit that, instead of resolving with therapy, are just building muscle and then getting body dysmorphia in the process. I’m not surprised he is so weird, but it’s still a shame - everyone deserves a shot at happiness!

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