I’ll start. I have to be careful drinking around other people, because I can get intensely motivational.

My neighbour used to be depressed and stayed at a cruddy job, despite poor pay. I was 17, and he was in his 40s. Well, one night we happened to drink together. It turned out he only stayed at that job in hopes that he would eventually get his parents approval, and that they would finally be proud of him. The job made him miserable.

I spent hours convincing him that he was worth more than his parent’s approval, and that he deserved to be happy. That he was the one living his day-to-day life, and that he should live it how he wants to. Many tears were shed that night. Dude quit before getting any new job prospects, and ended up working in a completely different field. He said thank you more than a few times, after everything was said and done.

That might not sound bad, but it was far from a one-off scenario. I eventually started to wonder what would happen if I accidentally helped lead someone to make a bad decision. It’s not like drunk people are known for making good decisions. So, I only drink around certain people now haha.

On a side note, a crazy number of people have problems with/from their parents.

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I don’t drink anymore, but when I did I would get more witty and talkative until about 6 drinks in at which point I would just become obnoxious and weird. Then I would get upset that everyone didn’t think I was absolutely amazing and get self conscious and angry. Then I’d go home and drink more by myself until I blacked out.

So quirky!

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Ah, a classic. All throughout my 20s, I put myself into this same pitiful loop as well. I cringe thinking about my behavior and relationship with alcohol during those days.

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I become an engineering genius . I mean i’m no slouch normally but i will start fixing things for people - and properly

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You wake up the next day … “why is there so much duct tape on the fish tank? … Oh no.”

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No, i’d somehow find the one hardware store open at 3am, and would be relocating the fish and actually using marine expoxy to repair that.

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Ah yes - the good ol’ Ballmer Peak.

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Balmer Peak

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It also applies to playing pool

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I’ll go to the hardware and grocery stores to gather supplies if I plan on day drinking. 10 out of 10 times my workshop and kitchen will be full of activities for the rest of the day.

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Get a 3d printer, you’ll never buy another christmas present

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I would LOVE to get one of those. I make a lot of custom rack mount panels for audio and video carts for film/television production and there have been too many times where I thought of some special part that could open up a whole world of entirely new build options for me but that thing/part just doesn’t exist. One day I’ll have one to play with… it’s high up there on the list.

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Oh you’re a nice person.

The only “drunken quirk” so to speak is that when I am drunk I’m very aware of that and that I will go above and beyond not to appear drunk. That’s it. It’s not as wholesome as your story ofc.

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I have the exact opposite problem, I end up telling everyone that I’m drunk repeatedly.

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I kind of get the urge to talk to a lot of people about it

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My eyes blink at different intervals like some Thom Yorke motherfucker.

I will also say more stupid shit.

Edit - added more. I already say stupid shit.

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I talk a lot when I’m drunk. I over-explain and over-share like crazy. My 10-year old also does this on a regular basis.

On an unrelated note, I seem to be missing a bottle of vodka. If anyone sees it, please let me know.

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I seem to be missing a bottle of vodka

Maybe your 10 year old has it?

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No no, clearly the 10 year old would share if he had it

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