Back when I was still swiping, I seem to have more younger men swipe on me rather than older or even equal age. Is there a reason why? Boys who knows unker a little, do you think my personality may throw off older men?

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Smart guess: Maybe you look younger than your actual age?

Tak tahu mati punya guess: Maybe you give off sugar mama vibes? 🏃🏻

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or both? HAHAHA

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Cries over missing the window of opportunity to get a young-looking sugar mama

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wdym bro I’m right here!

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Boys who knows unker a little, do you think my personality may throw off older men?

as long as u don’t say

spoiler

lanjiao lanjiao

so loudly in a public place should be fine

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I guess cibai is fine

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is that what threw you off? HAHAHA

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I’m superficial as hell. I don’t care if you’re younger or older. If you look good in my eyes, I’d date you.

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Do you look good in your eyes?

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Honestly age doesn’t matter. As long as core values and personalities align, don’t have to be the identical but complementary at least. Also maturity, just because someone is older, doesn’t mean they’re more mature.

Ofc there are limits to youth as well lol. Like I see college/uni girls as literally children and wouldn’t be able to date one myself, but I’ve got colleagues who always creep whenever we have lunch at some food court near colleges.

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See only mah, not the same as dating one xD

It depends on the experience also I guess. Maturity and wisdom, do they always come hand in hand? Agree with the age ≠ maturity bit though. God knows I know men in their 40s who made me ex look like the most sane guy around, haha.

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Weeee first comment in this forum. UI needs improvement though imo.

As a 36yo man, I prefer younger woman. Mainly due to realistic reason, women have high risk giving birth after certain age even with current medical technology. So, they might not want to have kids at my age or older. Still, it is hard to say. When you found the right person, you might just go for it.

Anyway, I am a (I think you call us) wizard myself. No problem living alone so might end up single forever. haha

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Oof, you’re not the first person who refers to the “wizard” but I hope it didn’t come off offensive >.<

That what I thought too, tbh. Surely men want younger women, I mean it’s all about pros and cons right realistically speaking, haha.

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No worries, I unker d never follow these kinds of “naming” stuff (and most abbr) so don’t really care. Haha. A quick google tells me wizard refers to people who are really good at something. Doesn’t sound match the context of relationship to me. lol. I assume it refers to people who lacks people skill? Or prefers spending most time themself.

Anyway, I think some older man with kids probably don’t mind anymore as they might be just looking for a soulmate that can get old together. Unless they playboy lar… xD

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hor… how you know so well they playboy unker… unless… xD

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