Joining in on any bullying as a kid instead of stopping it. I was also bullied. One day in freshman year of high school a switch flipped and I would not stand for it anymore, but I even bullied the kid I started standing up for before the switch flipped.
@58008@lemmy.world, nice username lol
I stayed with a woman who was abusing me for six years after I knew I wanted out, because I didn’t want to hurt her feelings.
Not sticking up for that girl in class (in the 80d) that the super scary bully called ugly. Worse. Going along with his bullshit. Fucking hell. I was such a goddamn smarmy scared little bitch. Never, ever again.
When I was about 16 a random girl gave me her number and I gave her a fake one because I was nervous about… Something? I don’t even know.
I often feel bad about it.