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that is just sad. yet so many will say sexism does not exist

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Pretty sure racism is also involved

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Intersectionality

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It’s as if, like, if you are a woman, and also in a disfavoured racial category, like, where they, uh, have overlap? Where they meet? It’s not the same as either one individually but its own, I guess nexus? I feel like there’s a better word for this

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There’s a somewhat niche, but clever word for this particular combo - misogynoir

Coined by Moya Bailey in 2010

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@ReiRose@lemmy.world has it right, the term and idea is intersectionality.

apropos of nothing, intersectionality came out of critical race theory’s analyses of black womens outcomes in the legal system. the particular combination of oppression is literally the textbook example.

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I think it’s called a “double minority”, but being a woman isn’t really a minority tho so I don’t know if theres a better term than that.

I feel bad for people who are black, lesbian, neurodivergent, and trans-woman… like that’s a quadruple minority.

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idk the point of your snark… people are still figuring out intersectionality. just give some education or stfu, dont condescend to people who are making an effort.

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Also the person in the next door cubicle that microwaves fish for lunch.

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This is also common in the guitar community. Some women can shred like mofos, and here comes Jim-Bob McGraw saying their playing is tracked etc., ad nauseum

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What does it mean if their playing is “tracked”? Genuinely have no clue.

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Like they use a pre recorded track and then make a video

Lip syncing for guitarists

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Can… Can I be the one sitting in that chair? (⁠。⁠♡⁠‿⁠♡⁠。⁠)

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Sure there are. But then there are girls like Melle Baby who overshadow them not by only wearing underwear. Seriously, how do I get her out of my recommendations?

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Yeah, online gaming has all but confirmed to me that sexism is very alive and well.

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The funny thing is that in my experience female programmers usually have above average skills. I suspect it’s exactly because of this bias against women in tech. Where an average or below average dude can easily get by, this is much harder for women. As a result this bias acts as a kind of filter which results in female programmers being on average a little better than male programmers because all the average or below average ones get filtered out early.

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Here’s hard data to match your experience:

“This paper presents the largest study to date on gender bias, where we compare acceptance rates of contributions from men versus women in an open source software community. Surprisingly, our results show that women’s contributions tend to be accepted more often than men’s. However, women’s acceptance rates are higher only when they are not identifiable as women. Our results suggest that although women on GitHub may be more competent overall, bias against them exists nonetheless.”

https://peerj.com/preprints/1733/

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That’s probably just because women are smarter than men.

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I might add, in the hostile environment women may feel compelled to try harder at least to make a point. As in, “I’ll show you what I can do”.

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If she were a man, she’d be calling herself a polymath and everybody would be agreeing with her.

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Hell, she’s be the meme for what a “real man” is instead of “gigachad.”

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8 points

Not a perfect example, but I never see people question Henry Cavil’s nerd cred

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Well gamers exist

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Even more rage inducing these comments would be the same if she wasn’t conventionally attractive.

Fucking programmers need a solid clip around the ear.

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Claims to be able to program in C++, Java

“Pfft yeah probably only in Hello World”

No that’s Elon Musk. He’s full of shit. This Victoria Secret model can actually do something.

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Nah Elon is not that useless, he knows how to change twitter’s icon

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I’m sure he got someone to do that for him

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Probably replaced “twitter_logo.png” with the x logo under the same name in an AWS bucket lmao

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That’s actually pretty hard to do with a codebase as large as twitter’s must be. You would have to locate the frontend code for each front end they have (website, app, etc). For each front end, there will be multiple Twitter logos (different resolutions, icon version, etc.). And then you would have to replace all of them and push the changes through their pipelines.

I doubt musk can do that.

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And lose lawsuits

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I was so glad we had a woman join our dev team some months ago. It’s more fun, more relaxed and we are able to get better results as we just cover a wider area of skills. People gatekeeping programming to include only men are idiots.

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That poor girl. My gf’s only female teammate quit last month and i suggested she start grinding leetcode asap. Could you imagine being the only woman on a team? Pretty strong indicator that something is very wrong there.

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Eh, my team is this way, but it’s because we’re aerospace adjacent which further compounds the problem. The only woman on our team is awesome and everyone gets along great. No one has an inflated ego or feels the need to one up each other though, which tends to be the root of the issue in my experience. Lots of tech bros feel the need to put others down, and see women as an easier target unfortunately.

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If we want to reach parity, there’s gotta be some only woman at first.

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I don’t think it’s necessarily an indicator of something wrong with the team. it’s not easy to hire women in this industry, there just aren’t that many of them. A team of 10 people with 1 woman isn’t a red flag, it’s unfortunately average. If we’re talking about a bigger team that’s a different story.

It’s somewhat easier if you hire immigrants. there are definitely more women devs from Eastern cultures than Western cultures.

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You say this, but I’ve been on 5 two-pizza teams over the course of my career, and there were other women on every team except the 2 most toxic ones. My current team at a large fortune 500 is majority women. I realize this may not reflect the entire industry, and some fields may be more male dominated than others. But there are a lot of women programmers out there. You just need to pay them well and give them a good work life balance and they’ll work for you.

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It’s the same thing with any kind of diversity. Not an expert, but anecdotally, it seems to work better if you start adding diversity at the top. At least people at the senior+ level are generally more comfortable being outliers.

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It’s annoying sometimes that people just assume that those who don’t work in tech are completely clueless about tech.

It’s also really funny to mess with people who assumes that.

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as someone who works in tech, the number of people who think they know about tech and are actually completely full of shit dramatically outweighs the people who don’t work in tech and do know what they’re talking about. it can take a lot of energy to differentiate the 2 groups

dunning krueger is at play a lot, because most people use a computer every day and think they know everything about the internet because they know what DNS stands for and typed a command to flush the DNS cache this one time and it worked

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This mirrors the experience of anyone who has studied linguistics.

Because everyone speaks at least one language fluently, they tend to assume that they understand how languages work, while having zero awareness of the fact that people have spent generations studying language and communication at the PhD level and that almost nothing about what we reflexively intuit about language actually holds true.

And I say this as a purely amateur linguistics nerd who does not claim any real formal expertise in terms of academic credentials.

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I feel personally attacked lol

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Same. And I’ve dated a Denise. Not easy to forget.

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Yeah, you can’t really fake experience either. I recently joined a group of guys who clearly have had plenty of real world experience in the kinds of things I have, and just talking shop is refreshing. Haven’t had that ability for a long time.

If someone like her showed up in my team, and she’s able to talk the talk, I wouldn’t need any further validation and it’d be fun to hear the kinds of things she’s worked on.

Funnily enough, a woman is joining this all-guy group soon and I’m told she’s really good, so I get to do exactly that.

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Don’t exhaust yourself, just assume that everyone who thinks they know about tech does. They’ll prove themselves wrong very quickly if necessary and you eliminate the risk of getting owned by a VS model.

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except when you waste a crap load of time figuring something out only to realise that the person that says “it can’t be X” didn’t actually know that it was in fact X

… this is why you don’t argue with ISP support when they tell you to reboot your router: just do it; they don’t know that you’ve done that before you call them, and you telling them that’s not the problem is not going to change anything… it’s not because they don’t believe you specifically, it’s because they just can’t trust that everyone knows what they’re talking about

the same goes for most IT problems… it saves time in the long run to just assume people don’t know what they’re doing, because problems and systems are both complex and dynamic

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This is true, but also IT is a huge place there is an insane amount to learn. So really you spend an incredible amount of time in the “valley of despair”. Basically anyone who brags about their skills is VERY suspect. This person is an iOS developer, which is a great career, but the title of the article is phrased like she was at least Linus Torvalds. I’m sure she had little say in this, but whilst a reaction like this is never justified I can see why people made fun of it. Also it was clearly written by someone who has no idea what the words mean. Unless I’m mistaken MIPS is a cpu architecture, you can’t program in it. You can write machine code “for” it. So yeah I can see why people assumend these claims were lies.

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They assumed these claims were lies because they are sexist.

I work in tech. I taught programming at university. And guys think I have no idea what I am talking about when I am the person correcting their f*ing babies homework. I had men come into my office asking me when the Sys Admin is back in office.

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MIPS is processing speed. Definitely needs programming

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Tech is a weirdly wide term. Does it only include IT? Engineering? Astrophysics?

A lot of work is “tech” as in technology related. It is inevitable to be clueless about a lot of technology, even when being the spearhead of development in one specific field.

Meanwhile you don’t need to tell the guys at the car-shop about programming, but they most likely know more about every non computer part of the car you just brought to them for repairs, because you were clueless about where that weird sound comes from.

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Welding pipelines and building houses is tech.

Tech being used exclusively for electronics and computing is sort of weird, but idk what else to use.

Calling it the Tron industry would be fun, though.

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Yeah, and even more broadly, there are very few single things you can learn about a person that tell you anything else about them. Like “Because you’re _____ your must also be _____.” I work with a bunch of literal rocket scientists, and I often see people assume that because they have that kind of job, they probably aren’t creative. Pushing aside the fact that there are giant amounts of creativity in engineering solutions, I know rocket scientists who are painters or musicians. Some who have written fiction.

I guess there are a few things where maybe it’s valid. There probably haven’t been many NBA stars who suffer from dwarfism. But generally when you know one thing about a person, you just know that one thing. Finding out that someone is an academy award nominated actress doesn’t, in itself, tell much else.

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Some fragile male egos in this thread. Looking forward to your complaints about the Barbie movie. Sad and pathetic.

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I don’t know what you’re talking about. For me the fragile egos are way down the thread, all massively downvoted. The absolute majority is supportive.

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People are addicted to rage.

A few arseholes on twitter saying negative things sets a chain reaction of rage to all those who are addicted to their own emotions.

The mature thing to do in all cases is to let it go.

It’s also worth noting that the original comments could be aimed at the fact she is a model, and not because she is a woman.

#zoolander

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But why male models?

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Not everybody’s sorting by Top, friend. They’re probably down there where you say they are though.

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My comment on the Barbie movie …Kens belt buckle looks like a liny Metallica logo…horses are rad and Alan is terrible.

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He fits into all of Kens clothes!

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Alan was literally MVP wtf

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Why would anyone care about an hour-long toy commercial?

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Because that’s not what the movie is at all. It actually spends a fair amount of time mocking consumerism and hating on the negative impact barbie has had on women’s self image and feminism. It’s actually pretty crass with a lot of offcolor jokes. It’s more targeted to adults who had Barbies as kids during on the 80s/90s.

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I did the Barbenheimer double bill. The one that felt like a.commercial was the “YU ESS EH” nature of promoting American War interests.

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Of course it’s a toy commercial.

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It was a really fricken good movie, way to be closed minded and talk shit about something you didn’t watch

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Huh, not something I expected of a very capitalist Mattel.

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They said the same thing about the LEGO movie and how wrong they were…

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The LEGO Movie is a long advertisement, too.

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Time is linear, this is an old image, you probably searched the app store today.

Maybe if you did two seconds of research, you’d know they aquired an iOS team in 2016 and have white label apps for clients. Obviously with the rest of her credentials she knows how to make an iOS app and publish it to the app store.

Your trying to discredit her just like the comments.

https://venturebeat.com/business/rallybound-buys-chorus-to-build-campaign-management-apps-for-nonprofits/

What an incel.

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Go the fuck back to reddit.

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