I have both put my penis in a vagina and had a penis put in my vagina before
Definitely the latter for me, but I had hangups with the former so itβs probably not an entirely fair comparison
Went with random creation. Unfortunately I skipped over the slider customizations. Stuck with a male character. Though the height slider was already cranked up.
Tried to go for a melee build, but stats favored int. So, Iβve been going with a Netrunner build (IT).
My character creation glitched and gave me a male body when I specifically chose female in the options. Devs made it really hard to fix this but some people have found some ways around it. Fortunately my skill build came out pretty good, high cha+int with average str and dex, so Iβm a netrunner/bard multiclass and thatβs working pretty well.
Iβve built my own 3 slide toaster.