I’m talking in the context of the “capitalist rules”. If you say the aforementioned sentence, you remove the responsibility of the player by dismissing the fact that the winner makes the rules.

PS: Doesn’t work for every context: if the player aims to change the rules because he doesn’t like them, he might see winning as a way to change them. “You either die a hero or live long enough to see yourself become the villain” I guess…

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That’s the entire point of the phrase, as far as how I’ve always interpreted it: don’t blame people for doing what’s best for them within a system they don’t control.

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I can hate both. Morality is not subject to the whims of legislation. If you’re a billionaire, you’ve done something immoral. Playing “within the rules” does not absolve you of all morality.

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The reason that doesn’t make sense, is billionaires are the only ones with the power to fix the economic system thru political donations.

The saying isn’t meant for your example, because they’re not just players. Their also the refs and the ones who wrote the rules for the game.

Like:

It is what is

That makes sense if said between prisoners about how shitty jail is. But if a prison guard beat an inmate and then said that, it doesn’t make sense.

Just because it’s not true 100% of the time for 100% of people doesn’t mean it’s worthless. By that logic no phrase should exist

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I agree, I’ve said that about this phrase before! I can hate the player too. Not one of my favorite maxims.

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Legislation is not the only game being referred to by this saying.

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No, but it was OP’s example. Use it in any ither context, and I’ll tell you why the player is also a shitty person, regardless of the game.

Is it a guy being emotionally manipulative to have relationships with multiple women? Yeah, he’s a shitbag.

Is it a business resorting to underhanded, but profitable, practices to corner the market and boost income? Shitbags.

Is it the kid cheesing that one move to win every battle? Shit. Bag.

I mean, there are degrees of being a shitty person. But anyone saying “don’t hate the player, hate the game,” knows they are doing something shitty and are doing it anyway because they can.

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If a game inevitably leads to billionaires unless you can count on all individuals being moral people, I take the liberty of hating the game that sets things up like that.

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Any system can be abused. Amoral assholes will always exist. We have a system that rewards amoral assholes with wealth and power. Hate both the player and the game.

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Clearly these people are unfamiliar with the prisoner’s dilemma.

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And what do you know about Nash Equilibriums?

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After reading the Wikipedia page, absolutely nothing. It doesn’t seem to be a thing that actually applies anywhere.

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Legality is not the same as moral or ethical. The rules of life, civility, and good society are not preordained. Aka we make our own norms and values.

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No, we don’t make our own norms and values. There’s no reason to believe that is any more flexible than our reliance on iron or potassium to survive.

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I’m sorry, but fucking what.

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Have you any idea of the scope of existing human norms and values? Your statement is false based on the scope of people alive today.

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But also, morality does fuck all to help you survive. Morality is absolutely useless for an individual, much to the contrary.

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You heard it here lemmy, this guy thinks morality is “absolutely useless”.

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Morality is the basis for social cohesion, which is necessary for the survival of the individual. Try to survive without the help of any other person, including parents, teachers, employees, …

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In this particular context regulatory capture and political donations is the unseen bullshit of the claim. Corporations DO make the rules

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The system is large and powerful. However, it’s perpetuated by individuals. Apathy is a lack of empathy…

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You are literally defining the meaning of the phrase. That is not a shower thought.

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Two hundred up votes, dont hate the player hate the game

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Hate the upvoters lol

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Well, I thought of it while taking a shower so…

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Yes.

Just like “it is what it is”, that statement is a “thought terminating cliche” and that is what it’s doing.

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Is labeling a phrase a “thought-terminating cliche”, a thought-terminating cliche?

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Well I’d say it’s a hate-terminating cliche. As in, “Hey let’s stop thinking about how much we hate that guy, when he’s trying to feed his family”.

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“Trying to feed your family” does not excuse everything. In fact I would say “they are just trying to feed their family” is almost on par with “it is what it is” as a thought terminating cliché.

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Yes, but the game is the problem. That’s why the ecological footprint is problematic, it pushes the responsibility towards individuals rather than changing laws.

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I always reply that I hate both.

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So you disagree with the saying? Why?

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Because it implies that there are just two options while I think there is a third.

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I don’t think it implies that. It just says “this is a better option than that”

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