I’m a tech lead developer. But the past couple of years I’ve been looking high and low for sustainable work. The most I’ve gotten is projects people pulled from their back pocket because they felt sorry for me.
I’ve been at this opportunity search for years now…not just months. I can’t pay for my health insurance anymore and my diet is 90% peanut butter sandwiches.
What hasn’t worked: following the “formula” everyone tells you to follow. Reach out to the recruiter, talk to the hiring manager, get a take-home assessment (I always decline these), then maybe get hired. Perhaps it’s because my mind tends to work more like a business owner–the closer I can get to taking ownership of projects the happier I am.
For the longest time I didn’t talk to recruiters. They’d be the first step in a company wasting my time. I realized this is because the employer is paying for the recruiter. The recruiter is getting paid by the employer and could be completely blind to how much of a jerk the employer is.
So I decided, you know what? Tech pays a boat load of money. Even if half my paycheck were spent on someone I’d still have a heck of a lot left for savings. What if I worked with a reverse recruiter.
Better yet, several!
So I’ve started the rounds. I am hiring recruiters to work for me. I was very transparent with the fact that I’m talking with others, and said whoever gets me a position first wins and gets the royalty.
I’ll even generate more competition further down the line. Once I’m financially stable I’ll continue to work with the recruiters and offer to pay them again for yet another position. Generate competition with my current employer.
I’m sick of being looked over. It’s about time I took the reigns.
What the heck did I just read?
You refuse to fully engage in the interview process by declining take home assessments, while saying you need the money and don’t have enough to do. I… think I’ve just spotted your problem?
Look, take home assessments suck. I get it. It’s work that you don’t get paid for, it’s tricky to fit into your normal routine, etc. But one of the biggest problems I have with take-home assessments is that they favor those without kids or without gainful employment, who have the time to prioritize the assessment and give it a few extra hours. Sooooo… Kinda sounds like you’re in the sweet spot to benefit from this, and you’re just rejecting it.
How exactly you think that this is the recruiters’ fault is a little strange.
Take home assessments I’ve taken: at least 20 Jobs I’ve landed after taking an assesment: 0 Jobs I’ve landed from companies that don’t have an assesment: at least 12.
Should I ignore the data?
In additon, I have a processing disorder which causes anxiety on tests. In school even after spending weeks studying I always got D’s on test in school despite getting A’s on papers and projects. Part of what I’m doing is taking back power from companies and individuals that don’t understand neurdivergent individuals and feel that my declination of assessments is somehow a moral failing and an indication that I don’t care about a company’s success.
Trust me. I’ve been down that “just shut up and take the test” approach. It’s only ended up with emotional abuse I’m just now overcoming and conquering.
Maybe instead of declining take home assessments, then, you ask for an accommodation for an alternate assessment citing your anxiety as a disorder. If nothing else, it’ll have them think.
Though, regarding your data. You’ve gotten 12 jobs that you got without an assessment. Which… well, that sounds like a lot of jobs. Yet you say you’re eating peanut butter. So… were those 12 jobs… kind of shit? Plus, getting passed over 20 times is… not that much in tech, unfortunately. So… I kinda think you should ignore that data?
I’ve asked for accommodations. Even offered ideas for accomodations. Not a single company has been willing to budge.
I’ve also found companies that have unpaid labor (I.e. take home assignments) as part of their process brush off any interest in truly helping the team. After any interview, no matter how I’m treated, I always try to follow up with the team months down the line to see if the hire they went with wed helping them, and if they had any issues and needed a hand I’d be there to help them.
I still do this. I’ll occasionally check in with teams that rejected me because I “wasn’t a good fit.” Without exception, any company that had an inflexible hiring process doesn’t respond to my check ins (and it’s not “oh I’m way too busy?” because I’ll see a string of “too busy” social media posts like memes days afterward).
Keep in mind this isn’t just a weekend event where I’ve experienced this. I’ve interacted with HUNDREDS of companies. My experience is my experience.
It all boils down to this: if a company can’t see that I don’t have their success in mind, they never will. I need to just keep searching until I find my own tribe. I’ve gotten very good at getting a “gut feeling” early when a company doesn’t value what I can provide for them.
My tribe is out there. I just need to keep looking.
So you’re proposing to pay recruiters a bonus on top of the percentage they earn for getting you in somewhere? No recruiter is going to submit you to a position that doesn’t accept 3rd party and any place that accepts 3rd party is going to pay the recruiter either a flat fee or a percentage of your negotiated salary. If you’re telling recruiters you’ll pay them but only if you get hired you’re telling them how their job works already.
If the employer pays, fine. I don’t give a damn. I’m just doubling my chances. If the employers are crap the recruiter has an incentive to look for new employers outside my network.
I basically have my own marketing agency. +1 for self-respect.
That’s… That’s exactly what recruiters are without your harebrained scheme to pay them out of your own pocket. There’s a chance you’re stuck looking because you’re struggling to really grok the business side.
It all boils down to this.
Money = value.
The more money you pour into something the greater ROI (return on investment) you’ll get.
In an employer/opportunity-seeker relationship if the employer is the one paying they’re getting a better ROI.
First of all, this post got me a bit worried about your mental health, is it possible you are under a lot of stress lately?
You are expressing something that I have been thinking too lately. Third parties, aka recruiters in this case, cannot be impartial if they are paid by one of the parties involved.
If you have an issue with your employer, you don’t go to the HR, you get a lawyer. A person fully representing your interest, equipped with the knowledge to actually do that.
I think the same should be the case for employment seeking. It’s not that you cannot build a network of colleagues, keep up with market trends, navigate legalities, and identify whatever new bullshit benefit companies are offering. But, delegating this job to a person/entity that specialises in it would most of the time be better.
Last but not least, I don’t think the term recruiter is appropriate, and I believe transitional recruiters are not going to be willing to help you.
Best wishes on your effort!! Please keep us to date, I am interested to see where this leads!!
Thanks. I already know my mental health is in the tank. Has been since I started my career. I’ve lost count the number of times I’ve been fired (and learned from each one), but that has trained my brain to constantly be in a state of “I have to do a 1,000% percent job at this new position so I don’t get fired.” But then I end up getting fired anyway because I burn out. Add in the fact that I often spend months or years without payable work the stress just keeps stacking. It’s not like it’s a sudden stressor like the death of a loved one. It’s an “undefineable” stresser that you can’t quite get across to people who have been able to steadily work with a company for years without a fear of losing it.
The only way to break the cycle is the shout out the noise and aim for exactly the position I’ll thrive in, to where my flaws won’t be grounds for firing but will instead be what makes me “me.” I’ve been told all my life I’m flaky, I don’t listen (more of a processing disorder thing instead of a moral thing), I’m too creative…I’ve heard it all, and I’m sick of it. Since nobody is telling me I’m valuable, I’ll say it myself.
My aim is to be an inspiration to people in my boat. That you can be labeled a “failure” by society but come out of it a winner.
I will not quit until I’ve made other people around me successful (with me joining along with them, of course).
Lmao, you really pulled the uno reverse card on them.
