I’m undecided between 2 and 3

81 points

If your answer is more than “one”, it usually means you don’t have the right pillow for your sleeping position. I have broad shoulders and I was a side sleeper. I used two pillows for the longest time, otherwise I had to twist my shoulder in while sleeping, or tilt my head towards the bed, neither being really comfortable for long time periods. Then I bought a thick foam one on sale in some random store I was at, and it made a world of a difference.

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9 points

That’s the only correct answer.

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3 points

I would use only one if I could find one I like that is thick enough. For a while I put two in one pillow case but the result was too oval in side profile.

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1 point

Maybe some of those foam chunk pillows with adjustable loft. Basically the case has a zipper in it and you can move fill from one to another.

I bought a pair of these and some waterproof zip cases and ended up with 3 pillows I like instead of 2 because they both needed to lose about a third of their volume to be right for me.

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1 point

I strongly prefer a 2 stage pillow, I’m happiest with 2.

Bottom is firm, top is soft. This allows me to maintain a generally consistent height, but move and adjust the top to suit different positions

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47 points

I can’t deal with more than one.

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8 points

As a kid I used to sleep with none. As a teen a towel was enough. In my 20s I was happy with one thin pillow. Now in my 40s I have one average pillow and I feel like upgrading.

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1 point

One good pillow is really all it takes for me. I swear by duck feathers.

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People like you are inherently Satanic.

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13 points

My neck aches if there’s more than one pillow under my head, I have four on my bed and often use the others to prop up my back if I’m watching tv or something, but sleeping on ones stomach limits the practical amount of pillows without discomfort

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you don’t need multiple pillows you need one that has the right thickness

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I don’t have the luxury of buying one pillow each month, thank you very much.

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29 points

0 or 1. 2+ is incredibly bad for your neck and sleep. Or you just have paper thin very old pillows and you should replace them with a high quality pillow. I use a Coop brand pillow and it’s customizable to whatever thickness works best for you. Get a good pillow and use 1. Don’t use more.

https://www.eightsleep.com/blog/how-many-pillows-do-you-really-need/

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7 points

I can’t even imagine what it would look like for someone to use more than 1 pillow. Like, how is their body not contorted into a horribly uncomfortable position?

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I use two in a sorta L shape and then use a pillow-sheet for ventilation. Nice and cozy

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5 points

pillows always made me feel uncomfy so I pretty much entirely stopped using them. Ill ball up a blanket if I want some support but often times I forgo it

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2 points

Paper thin pillows are the best pillows. I will shiv anyone who tries to lay a hand on mine!

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1 point

I am a side/stomach sleeper, and after years of never sleeping right, I was looking for a new pillow and tried these cheap-ass Walmart pillows made for side sleepers. I also decided to splurge and get pillow protectors. I forget the brand, but they are the top-level anti-allergen, anti-mold, super clean ultra max ones. I fluff mine every time before I lie down. So far, it’s lasted 6 months. My wife’s is a bit worn, but she is one of those people that seems to wear things out just touching them lol. It’s the most comfortable pillow I’ve ever used, and I’ve stayed in some pretty fancy places. It’s not just about how expensive it is, but if it’s the right kind of pillow for the way you sleep.

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You’re right about it being the right kind of pillow. I’m wondering if your fluff habit is what’s helping though. I’ve tried like twenty different kinds of cheap pillows and they’ve all sucked. It wasn’t until I finally said “enough is enough” and spent like $120 bucks on a pillow that I’ve finally had one that supports my head properly. Only problem is it is made for side sleepers and I rotate multiple times in the middle of the night from side to stomach and have to move it out of the way when I go to my stomach.

It has reduced the amount I rotate though.

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Yeah, that’s why my pillow journey has taken so long. I refuse to pay $100+ for something that needs to be replaced every 6-12 months. It’s why I’m not looking forward to getting a new mattress, too. They used to make them with a top on both sides so you could flip, as well as rotate your mattress, making it last much longer. Now you only get one side, and who the fuck knows how long all that rubber/memory foam/trash that they stick in them now lasts before it degrades. It’s just more of us not owning anything and everything made to be thrown out and replaced rather than maintained and repaired.

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21 points

One, anything else is pure decadence (unless you have a neck issue or something).

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