They’re a secondary sexual characteristic, so it seems like something that would get attention.

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Im struggling to find a way that I can shove my Adam’s Apple in someone’s consenting vagina.

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I want you to know that I didn’t like inline image replies until just now, you’ve changed my mind

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Doesn’t have to be penetration. Grind your clit on there

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I don’t think the person you replied to has a clit. You somehow didn’t understand what they wrote.

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Good advice nonetheless.

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Hey now, it’s hard to find the right spot sometimes ;)

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It’s right there on top of the adam’s apple

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People who like feet want to play with them. Adams Apple could be similar. Source: watched feet vids.

Japanese porn spends a lot of time licking body parts. Source: watched Japanese porn.

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To activate monkey neurons, it has to be an indicator of health.

As an example, large breasts indicate health, as malnourishment during adolescence tends to result in smaller breasts later on.

Muscles indicate health as well, so they tend to be considered attractive.

For non health related features, like a symmetrical face, those ones are the non sexual dimorphic characteristics, as those ones you care about transferring regardless of sex. Both men and women want a symmetrical face, basically.

So a large Adam’s apple is both a dimorphic feature and a non indicator of health, so its ignored.

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But I like small breasts. Am I broken?

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“Small” breasts typically are still large compared to a man’s chest.

There are other factors than size anyways, for any feature. For breasts as an example, symmetry, skin clarity, and firmness will also signal a healthy prospective mate.

“Small” breasts usually actually means “not sagging due to age”, as naturally speaking breasts, cheeks, and the neck of humans are common areas where sagging due to collagen levels can be witnessed in older age, so these are common cited areas of sexyal attraction.

So “small” breasts really just means “not old”, which is fairly normal to signal the health of a potentional sexual partner.

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Ok smart guy, explain this: I like mature women, ass play, humiliation, and bondage too. Sometimes simultaneously! Take that, evolution.

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For non health related features, like a symmetrical face

Your genes code for symmetry. Symmetry in the resulting body indicates a healthy upbringing.

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Why do you think anything primarily male would be a fetish?

Prostate cancer, you’re next

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It’s probably because a huger number of prominent secondary sexual sex characteristics get fetishized.

A brief search seems to show that it’s an attractive quality like masculine forearms, and has a degree of fetish amongst the strangulation fetish community.

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I mean, prostate cancer not so much, but prostate milking is a thing…

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Prostate stimulation is sexy not because of the prostate itself but because it is incredibly sensitive and pleasuring when stimulated, which in turn is of course sexy for those who like to please their partner and are maybe also into butt stuff.

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Prostate stimulation is sexy not because of the prostate itself

Prostate Pope are ya? Know the inner workings of every person-into-prostates’ mind?

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Wait, is prostate cancer the next fetish, or you’re wishing me to be the next prostate cancer patient?

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There is a super depressing story of a YouTuber named Leathersmokemi who died engaging in a similar fetish. Nick Crowley did a good video on him. I don’t know of a fetish centered on prostate cancer specifically but there are cancer fetishists and the fetish centered on terminal illness is called nosaphillia so it’s certainly possible that there are fetishists already out there focused on prostate cancer specifically.

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That’s horrifying.

There are also people who eat themselves to death for other people, like that avocado guy, and it’s just awful to know about.

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Or maybe you getting prostate cancer is his fetish.

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I don’t think it counts as a fetish if it’s a common thing to be attracted to

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It does. Mazophilia is the female breast fetish.

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Right, but that’s just a label people added lately to try and invalidate normal male sexuality.

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huh? You are calling people normal and not normal. How is treating everyone the same invalidating anyone?

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I’ve learned a lot in this thread that I was not aware of before

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