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Married folks of Fediverse, if you could turn back time to few weeks or months before your marriage, what you would do differently (if you would like to)??

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Thoralf Will@discuss.tchncs.de
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Nothing

Nothing at all.

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undrwater@lemmy.world
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This. 25 years later, I love her more than ever.

Moral of the story: no clue. But sexiness was absolutely NOT the magic bullet.

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Revv@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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Same here. There’s plenty I might like to change here and there in life, but absolutely nothing on this front. Celebrating 11 years in a few weeks, best decision I ever made.

Now, the first time… Well, second time’s the charm, it would seem.

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SorteKanin@feddit.dk
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Same. It was a great day and it went exactly as planned and as we wanted. Wouldn’t change anything.

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Steve Anonymous@lemmy.world
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Talk to her earlier than I did

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Aurenkin@sh.itjust.works
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Take our honeymoon straight away. We decided to wait and take our time to plan a big trip after we got married, which was in November 2019…

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isgleas@lemmy.ml
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Then what happened? What a cliffhanger! /s

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Annoyed_🦀 @monyet.cc
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Nothing, nothing happened in 2020.

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dumbass@leminal.space
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Well that’s a way to keep the honeymoon period going!

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SturgiesYrFase@lemmy.ml
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Wife and I got married in between lockdowns in the UK. We were able to have 4 people there, our witnesses and our photographer and my witness’ wife. Would have liked to have had a few more people there, and a proper bachelor party, and a honeymoon of any kind…

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Obi@sopuli.xyz
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Yeah same, we took a mini trip on the way home from the wedding, with plans to do a huge trip “soon”. With our lifestyles we already “need” to travel multiple times a year just for family etc, so taking the time and expense for such a trip just never really works out.

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frazorth@feddit.uk
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Same, we got married while she was pregnant and we were emigrating.

That was 2010.

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doublejay1999@lemmy.world
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I should have thrown myself in front of a train, instead of throwing myself under a bus.

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Damage@feddit.it
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Please do not interfere with public transport

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