Interesting problem here. So I self host jellyfin, happy to share my (owned) movies with my family. Well, my mother has asked me to digitize her collection too and have me host it. Originally, fine, you give your movies to me, I host them, same thing.

However, what I didn’t bet on was the amount of garbage, terrible movies she would give me. There’s a few that are fine, but the vast majority are, well I’ll just put it bluntly, christian propaganda. I don’t think any of them are as terrible as some of the worst case, but think “My life was horrible until I found god now look and see how fulfilled I am” type propaganda - and they make for horrible plots. Left Behind with Kirk Cameron is a good example. Even removing the blatent boring christian plots - it’s just a horribly made movie. Cheap, not thought out well, and honestly I read the book decades ago, it’s a horrible adaptation too.

Not that I keep only top tier movies in my libraries, but these are, well they just bring a pit to my stomach.

What would you do in my situation? (And I’m going to go ahead and say the pure atheist comments aren’t needed, yes of course I could burn them, or dance around them, but I’m not looking to just burn the bridge between my mother and myself over a lifetime of her indoctrination and bad taste in movies). I’m more looking for generic, how do you handle your users asking you to put content you don’t find appealing on your server?

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I mean, you don’t have to watch it.

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I don’t like hosting things I disagree with for others to view and consume

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So don’t?

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Ive not shared mine to the point anyone can arbitrarily get media. They have to ask. And I can always say “Oh its not available on my sources” or whatever

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hindsight is 20/20 there, yeah, wish I hadn’t done this. To others, this is the best approach, don’t accept it in the first place

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I don’t have this problem exactly, but what I would recommend is putting it in a specific separate library. You could even set it up so only your mother’s account can access it, and you never have to see it, or you could have it visible but never go to it.

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Would probably do this, but also rip it in very poor quality to be sure it does not take too much space :D

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Malicious compliances in action. Not that you can’t do, but this can tense up the relationship.

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Lol go the old school yify method. 700mb h.264 encode.

Enjoy your 7 pixels!

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This is a good idea, and an approach I’m going to think about and probably take. Then it’s away from everything else, and not polluting my actual good movies.

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Do one of the following:

  1. Tell your mother you’re not comfortable hosting that type of content as a non-believer.
  2. Lie and hand back the propaganda movies and say you couldn’t rip them to some unknown rip protecting they use and there’s not enough resources online to figure it out.
  3. Host the content and let your mother liver her life and don’t say anything.

I’d personally use option 1, but you do you.

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  1. You cant host them because your heathen server catches fire every time you rip one of the movies
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Well, just don’t host them, what she gonna do? Tell the police ?

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